Many teenagers going through puberty will have thoughts at some point where they question their own sexuality which is perfectly normal.
Puberty is a very confusing and an emotional time for most and figuring out who you are becomes really important for you to know and this includes realising your sexuality.
For some it is fairly obvious what their sexuality is and whether they prefer girls or boys or both, for others it can be torture not understanding their sexuality. In order to help determine your sexuality you may like to read some of the questions and answers below.
Sexuality Q and A
I seen another guys penis in the showers after gym class and got an erection, does this mean I am gay?
Not necessarily, you may be simply curious about other guys at your age, this does not mean you will be attracted to males in the future. Having a look around during shower time and checking out the “competition” as many call this is perfectly normal.
If you are getting erections looking at other males penises then there is more of a likelihood that you are experiencing arousal by looking at anything sexual. If you find yourself becoming even more fond of males in the future then you would most likely be gay or bisexual. A thing to ask yourself could be, do I prefer looking at sexual things related to males or females.
Me and my guy friend had full sexual intercourse after school, we both really enjoyed it, are we gay?
Experimenting is perfectly normal at your age. You will find that a lot of teens will experiment with each other at your ages. Experimenting is part of growing up and discovering new things, if you were to have sex together again in the future then it would no longer be experimenting and you would both most likely be homosexual.
I touched my friends penis accidentally and got an erection, I dont normally fancy boys and I like the look of girls, it was just this once and I felt ashamed afterwards, does this make me gay?
Getting an erection over anything sexual at your age is normal, if you prefer girls over boys then you are most likely straight and this erection was just excitement over something sexual. Do not feel ashamed about this, it happens to many young males.
I had sex with my older brother, am I gay?
Incest is not moral and also illegal in many countries depending on your ages too. I suggest for you to no longer do this as it has the potential to cause chaos within your family. If you were to continue having sexual intercourse I would say that you are both most likely gay if you have no attraction to females.
I like looking at naked girls and naked guys, do you think I’m gay?
I think you are neither gay nor straight, you seem to be bisexual. Being bisexual is normal and liking both girls and guys does not make you gay nor straight. If you find yourself in the future becoming attracted singly to one sex then you would be either gay or straight but at the moment, you seem to be bisexual.
This article is based purely from my own thoughts/opinions on the subject and should not be misinterpreted as solid fact. If anyone has any comments please feel free to leave them below.
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