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anyones one failure in whatever one does can be attributed to the lack of self confidence. a person who is confident enough about themselves can conquer anything achieve what he wants to within reason and gain success in life. so it is essential for everyone to do a self assessment and boost their self confidence every once in awhile.

-block out negative messages with positive thoughts. everyday we fill our minds with thoughts about all the things we see, hear, and touch. We get most of these negative messages through tv, radio, advertisements, and over hearing other people gossip and talk. negative thoughts deplete the mind and body of positive energy and block the flow of attracting self esteem and confidence into our lives. prevent negative messages from effecting your self esteem and self confidence by using your thoughts to talk to yourself in a positive way. repeat to yourself “I like myself”. it might seem dumb but just give it a try. i bet that if you go to the mirror right now and repeat out loud “I like myself!” 30 times it will be impossible to keep from smiling.

-groom yourself. if you were to spend extra time every morning dressing up and making sure you look your best you will be amazed at how much more confidence you will have. it feels great when you have your nicest clothes on and are looking your best. so put on your nicest clothes and get your hair styled. im sure you will feel better instantly. to help increase your self esteem even more start giving thanks to what you are, how you look, and what you are doing.

-posture. the way you stand sends out a message to the whole world! scientific studies have shown that posture affects your mood. slouching will produce a depressive mood while standing up straight will lift your mood. so pull back those shoulders, stop slouching, and walk proud! (also....it wouldnt hurt to add in a smile ^^)

i hope these tips help you on your way to being more self confident in everything you do. Once your self image has been boosted, in turn your confidence be will too. Enjoy life more with a better image of yourself and your life.

Thank you for these tips I'll try them out

let us now how they work for u cupcake XD

Okie dokie

What if you have no nice clothes due the fact that you're self esteem has already gone too bad and impossible to go buy new clothes cause i just cant :((, what if I constantly think im ugly and stupid.. :(

I have started to learn some basic magic tricks..just wiv coins really..make em disappear etc. people really like it and it has boosted my confidence