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Old 03-04-09, 12:52 PM   #1
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Default Thinking about having sex? The teen guide to considering becoming sexually active.

As a teenager you will be going through, starting or coming to the end of puberty. This is an emotional time for teens especially when you start considering becoming sexually active.

When is the right time to have sex for the first time?

You may ask yourself this question and there is no right answer. I believe that the right time is when you are over 16 and you have a good understanding of contraception, pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, how people work and also when you feel most comfortable.

My friends have all had sex, and I feel pressured to do it!

Sex should never be rushed. It is something you should only have when you are legally allowed to have it as well that you feel comfortable with your partner. Rushing sex could leave you distressed as well as in situations you would rather not be in.

Listening to your friends during these times is the worst thing you could ever do and if they are calling you names and pressurising you to have sex, they are not good friends at all. Sex is not cool at all or something to brag about, I believe that sex is precious and should only be shared with your partner who you love and at the right time when you feel most comfortable.

I have read all this but I am comfortable and want to have sex for the first time with my partner...

If you feel like this and are above the legal age in your country/state and are planning on having sex you should make sure you think about contraception. Boys can wear condoms, girls can take the pill or get a rod from the doctors. Make sure that you know the person you are sleeping with as they could be carrying a sexually transmitted disease.

Always make sure that you are protected as we all know that sex can lead to pregnancy and if you are not in the right circumstances, you should not be chancing sex at all.

The best policy is always to be comfortable with your partner and protected. Your first time should be a good experience and not something which you may regret later in life.

I hope this considering sex article as a teen has helped you.

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