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Having problems in figuring out whether that boy that you are going after really loves you? Here's some tips that I got off of this article [wikihow.com].

There's no way that a crush would ever admit his feelings, so here's a few tips.

• Watch his body language. If he looks away quickly and acts all shy or if he holds your gaze and makes faces, then he definitely likes you.
• Watch his eyes. If his pupils dilate when he looks at you, then he's in love with you, but this can be hard to pick up on.
• Listen to his words. He's likely to talk about himself more around you.
• Use the "Clock Test". It's a fast and effective way to see if a guy likes you. If there's a clock in the room, try to look at it, and see if his eyes follow yours.
• Watch for signs of anxiety. If he has sweaty palms, fidgets, laughs in a nervous way, or looks away quickly when you're around him, he likes you.
• Pay attention to the guy's friends. Do they act like they know something you don't?
• Pay attention to any signs of interest he shows in stuff you do. Does he suggest bands to listen to? Or does he want to play you in sports?
• Watch his reaction around other girls. Is he trying to make you jealous? If he stops flirting with the girls when you leave, then he likes you.

Some warnings though:

• Just because he's looking at you doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you. He may be checking on whether you're looking at him.
• Some guys treat all girls the same. Don't assume that just because he does affectionate stuff to you means he loves you.
• Watch out for subtle dudes. They might think that you're on or not on a date.
• Watch out for guys who say they like you. They might want to show off. Make sure that your guy is in sync with the tips above to make sure he likes you.

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Not my cup of tea but I am sure others will find this very useful, nice article!

A few weeks ago I told a guy from my class that I liked him, I just felt like I had to tell him. Anyway, I thought that there is a chance that he liked me aswel because I catch him looking at me often and when I look at his he quickly looks away. Also, when I talk to him, he can't look at me in the eyes and I feel like he is really shy or embarrassed or something. Anyway, I told him that I like him and he didn't say anything, he just smiled. I told him that I don't want him to feel weird around me or anything and he said he was fine about it. At first, I felt really relieved that I had told him, but now I have been feeling quite down, probably because his feelings arn't as I thought ... but, I don't get it, all the signs were there, my friend said that as he is shy he was probably too shy to say anything even if he liked me, but it wasn't exactly easy for me to tell him as I am also a shy person. So now, I feel quite awkward around him, I try not to look at him because I feel like he is trying to catch me out when I look at him, so I feel that it is best just to pretend he isn't there ... I don't know what to do, I am feeling sad, now I wish that I didn't tell him in the first place, but then I would have wondered what if...!
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this helps alot

that's great, i'll do that on every guy

tnx for the article.

ill try the clock test. thankk you!

this will help, thanks x