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Posted 27-06-10 at 03:44 PM by Emzyxo
Hi, i'm new to this so i'm not exactly sure as to what you post in blogs, but basically i have a massive dilemma that maybe somebody could give me some advice on.
I was together with my boyfriend for 14 months, he didn't have a job so we never seemed to do anything as a couple, we were always with friends, which i sometimes got really annoyed about, especially as he seemed to have £5 spare every night for weed...
So i felt quite ignored really.
Then one of my work friends started texting me and i only saw him as a friend so i didn't see the harm in texting back, but then i felt like somebody was actually listening to me and i knew he fancied me as he told me. So at the time i started to like him back, but looking back, i didn't like him at all, i liked to attention i was getting that i should of been getting off my boyfriend.
I was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend, but then he read the texts off my phone and went mental, we broke up and got back together after a week. But he realised that he needed more time apart as he couldn't get over what i'd done.
We've not seen each other for 2 weeks solid now, which is a very long time for us, he still doesn't know whether he wants to get back together with me, so now i'm just waiting. I still do love him and thats why i want him back, well, (wanted).
I went out last night and met this really nice lad, i've been texting him ever since and told him that i'm single, im very confused because i don't know whether to go for the easy option of...
1:- Get back together with my boyfriend and life goes back to normal and i have all my friends (which were originally his friends) and be able to go to V Festival and go on holiday. But i'd only be going back for the friends and the easy life.
OR
2:- Tell my boyfriend it's not going to work and move on by taking the risk with this lad, and make a new start? And lose all of my friends.
Please write to this as i really do not know what to do, thanks!!
I was together with my boyfriend for 14 months, he didn't have a job so we never seemed to do anything as a couple, we were always with friends, which i sometimes got really annoyed about, especially as he seemed to have £5 spare every night for weed...
So i felt quite ignored really.
Then one of my work friends started texting me and i only saw him as a friend so i didn't see the harm in texting back, but then i felt like somebody was actually listening to me and i knew he fancied me as he told me. So at the time i started to like him back, but looking back, i didn't like him at all, i liked to attention i was getting that i should of been getting off my boyfriend.
I was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend, but then he read the texts off my phone and went mental, we broke up and got back together after a week. But he realised that he needed more time apart as he couldn't get over what i'd done.
We've not seen each other for 2 weeks solid now, which is a very long time for us, he still doesn't know whether he wants to get back together with me, so now i'm just waiting. I still do love him and thats why i want him back, well, (wanted).
I went out last night and met this really nice lad, i've been texting him ever since and told him that i'm single, im very confused because i don't know whether to go for the easy option of...
1:- Get back together with my boyfriend and life goes back to normal and i have all my friends (which were originally his friends) and be able to go to V Festival and go on holiday. But i'd only be going back for the friends and the easy life.
OR
2:- Tell my boyfriend it's not going to work and move on by taking the risk with this lad, and make a new start? And lose all of my friends.
Please write to this as i really do not know what to do, thanks!!
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Hi Emily,
I think it would be best if you were to post this on the forums. You're more likely to get advice there.
Here's a link to the section where you should re-post your blog entry;
http://www.teenforumz.com/relationships-dating-crushes/
I will respond next time I'm online. :)Posted 27-06-10 at 03:51 PM by Kirk
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Oooh thankyou! i have just done it
Posted 28-06-10 at 11:46 AM by Emzyxo
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