i know y i self harm
Posted 23-06-10 at 06:26 PM by fudge-cake
i dont know why people self harm but i know why I self harm. i self harm because i know im in controll of the pain in my life.
i get given emotional pain and via a blade i can turn it into physical pain that only i can cause.
so if your reading this and you know y you do it please comment becuase we as teen can show all the doctors wrong and make our own cure. xx
i get given emotional pain and via a blade i can turn it into physical pain that only i can cause.
so if your reading this and you know y you do it please comment becuase we as teen can show all the doctors wrong and make our own cure. xx
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Hmm... You're an idiot. Instead of causing yourself more pain, take control of you life for real and don't let people hurt you.
You're only running away from the emotional pain, running away solves nothing - it makes you a weakling, a pushover, a doormat. Stand up for yourself for crying out loud, instead of fucking up your body along with your already fucked up mental state.
The doctors are right, it isn't healthy and it can really fuck you up or kill you. There's a reason why you're not supposed to do it.
Besides, other people can cause you physical pain, you're just lucky you've only gotten emotional pain.
Instead of acting all woe-is-me oh my life is an emotional wreck therefore I must be all masochistic about it and cause even more pain to myself - you should step up, get off your crybaby ass, and rid yourself of this emotional pain and make those giving you such pain stop it.
Physical pain solves nothing - it's not the way to deal with emotional pain. This is because oh-sure you're fine for now. But when something really huge and bad happens suicide will seem like the logical answer if you continue to self-harm.
Stop being an idiot. Solve your problems instead of running away.
And before you ask, yes I know what I'm talking about. Yes, I've self harmed. Yes, it fucked up my body. No, it never solved anything. Yes, running away is easier short-term but not long-term.
But fine, if you wanna be a doormat the rest of you life, assuming you have the backbone to keep living it, then by all means go ahead.
And yes, if you are this way then you are indeed a doormat. You let others get to you and clearly let them push you around enough to cause emotional pain.
Therefore, you're a doormat. Grow a brain and some backbone to go along with it.
Puh-lease!Posted 23-06-10 at 09:33 PM by Marionetta
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im not an idiot. you may have come out of self harm but me and many others havnt. and wat makes you think ive never had physical pain? i left that out does that mean that i never had it?
im trying to understand more about other people because then maybe we can pull each other outof this. i work my arse of day in day out fighting the erge and i aint easy. yer if that makes me a doormat then so be it. but i disagree becasue im trying. you need to be a little more sympathetic towards people becasue you could end up really hurting somone if you go round psting shit like that.Posted 23-06-10 at 11:49 PM by fudge-cake
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Well you're sure as hell acting like one.Quote:im not an idiot.
Oh yes because practically promoting self harm totally will help others out of self harming.
Oh my gosh such perfect logic you have there. *rolls eyes*
You left that out, not my fault you failed to mention it.
If you're fighting the urge then why the fuck are you acting like it's okay? Fighting doesn't make you a doormat, please re-read what I said.
Sympathy? Sympathy never actually helped anyone - facing reality does. Besides, it's impossible for me to sympathize with people who bring this upon themselves.
I swear, why should I have sympathy for someone who hurts when they are the ones causing themselves pain? If it hurts, then stop it, don't make it worse - this called stupidity.
Like I'm really going to hurt anyone further than they are already hurting themselves. You want pain so bad, then no holds barred. Besides, this way it gives people the ability to stand up for themselves. It's called reverse psychology.
You said you give yourself pain only you can cause. If you don't want misunderstangings then you should reword things accordingly.Quote:and wat makes you think ive never had physical pain?
The point is, emotional pain happens. It just does. Life isn't fair so you just gotta deal with it rather than make yourself worse-off by harming yourself further.
That, however, doesn't mean they can't. If they continue to run away then they'll never stop. The only way to solve problems is to face it head on and not back down.Quote:you may have come out of self harm but me and many others havnt.
So instead of whining, harming yourself, and then go about promoting it like it's okay - you should stand your fucking ground and not let other emotionally fuck with you.
Because that will only lead to hurting yourself further. You face the root of the problem, your character, then work your way up to those taking advantage of your character.
You never stated you were trying. Since you are, no, you're not a total doormat. Nevertheless if you still let people get to you, you are a doormat. However fighting only shows me that you also have the will to stop. So just stop.Quote:but i disagree becasue im trying.
If you have the will to fight then you have the will to restrain.
Also, I'm unsympathetic because I care. Sympathy only reinforces the behavior because it's giving the other more positive attention.Posted 24-06-10 at 02:08 PM by Marionetta
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