Needin' Some Advice...
So here it is
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I've been trying to seek some advice for myself lately, because lately I don't have anyone to turn to, and I can't do this on my own. My friends don't understand what I'm going through, so their advice is too cliché and just not helpful.
I'm sure you get a lot of questions about teenage love, breakups, and heartbreak, and I don't want to be another, but honestly, I don't know how to handle my recent breakup. I've been so depressed lately. I cry all of the time. My parents don't understand why I sometimes wear my sunglasses indoors, but I do this to hide my tears. I had to fake an ear injury when they caught me crying in my room.
I'll get to the point. My best friend, ex-boyfriend, and "soul-mate" dropped me completely after two wonderful years being together. He lives 65.28 miles away from me, but I always made an effort to see him whenever he wanted, even if I got home at four in the morning on a school night. I was willing to take risks for this boy and truly fell in love with him. I thought he fell for me too.
After a while, the fighting got worse and more frequent because his attitude changed. One night, he, out of nowhere, told me he just wanted to be friends. That was the first time that my knees gave out from underneath me. To make matters worse, we started talking again so I visited him one night, we did some boyfriend-girlfriend things, and then he got a girlfriend that next day. I was devastated.
Now that he has her, he no longer even wants to talk to me anymore. Every time I make an effort to talk to him, he's either a jerk or doesn't even bother replying. I thought I did the right thing the other day by telling him I thought we should no longer talk. He didn't bother replying back. That's why I think he doesn't care.
How can we go from perfect to nothing in just a few months? But, I thought this separation would leave me happy. I thought maybe I could just forget him and move on. But, now, every time my phone vibrates, I hope it's him apologizing. It's been a week and I feel like I can't do this anymore. I want to text him so badly and just apologize even though I have nothing to apologize for. I'm hoping you tell me I did the right thing, but I'm just not happy without him. I don't want to get back with him; I just wanted to be friends. (He knew this.) I figure I'm doing the right thing by doing what he wants me to do, but what about me? Shouldn't I be happy too? I don't want to drop him completely. He was my best friend. Please, someone, help me. I just want to be happy again.
I'd love some comments.I'm sure you get a lot of questions about teenage love, breakups, and heartbreak, and I don't want to be another, but honestly, I don't know how to handle my recent breakup. I've been so depressed lately. I cry all of the time. My parents don't understand why I sometimes wear my sunglasses indoors, but I do this to hide my tears. I had to fake an ear injury when they caught me crying in my room.
I'll get to the point. My best friend, ex-boyfriend, and "soul-mate" dropped me completely after two wonderful years being together. He lives 65.28 miles away from me, but I always made an effort to see him whenever he wanted, even if I got home at four in the morning on a school night. I was willing to take risks for this boy and truly fell in love with him. I thought he fell for me too.
After a while, the fighting got worse and more frequent because his attitude changed. One night, he, out of nowhere, told me he just wanted to be friends. That was the first time that my knees gave out from underneath me. To make matters worse, we started talking again so I visited him one night, we did some boyfriend-girlfriend things, and then he got a girlfriend that next day. I was devastated.
Now that he has her, he no longer even wants to talk to me anymore. Every time I make an effort to talk to him, he's either a jerk or doesn't even bother replying. I thought I did the right thing the other day by telling him I thought we should no longer talk. He didn't bother replying back. That's why I think he doesn't care.
How can we go from perfect to nothing in just a few months? But, I thought this separation would leave me happy. I thought maybe I could just forget him and move on. But, now, every time my phone vibrates, I hope it's him apologizing. It's been a week and I feel like I can't do this anymore. I want to text him so badly and just apologize even though I have nothing to apologize for. I'm hoping you tell me I did the right thing, but I'm just not happy without him. I don't want to get back with him; I just wanted to be friends. (He knew this.) I figure I'm doing the right thing by doing what he wants me to do, but what about me? Shouldn't I be happy too? I don't want to drop him completely. He was my best friend. Please, someone, help me. I just want to be happy again.
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Ohh gosh, you have really been through it all! .. From an outsiders point of view ..i would either.. never speak to him again and tell yourself to get over him.. or i would get a new boyfriend.. see how he likes it! .. and try and get over your ex by making yourself fall madly in love with your new one.. or i would go visit him.. tell him sex was great.. and let his current gf see that he is a sleaze.. and tell him face to face.. that he will never no longer hurt you again-lead you on- and humiliate you. His current gf will feel threatened and most likely have doubts about him. Be nice to her.. make her feel as though you are the victim here.. cos no doubt he will twist it and silly her will believe it. Fuck things up for him.. like he fucked you up. If you do not get this revenge or just force yourself to get over him.. then you will cause yourself serious damage to your mental health. There is another option.. you could date someone from his home town.. and stay over for the week or something.. and no doubt.. you two will bump into each other and he will feel resentment and have jealousy rushing threw his veins.. that he will be looking at something he can no longer have. hm, maybe im just mean and disturbed.. but sometimes lads are dickheads and dont care.. its like they have no heart and their brain is down their pants. best of luck.. I hope my advice helped
xxxxPosted 24-08-10 at 08:20 PM by ashleigh
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