Emotional Abuse.
Posted 14-09-09 at 05:52 PM by Setmyselfonfire
I am in a very complicated relationship.I dont really kno what to do.Im not used to this.
Ive always been such a strong girl and brave and outgoing friendly bold, blunt daring, exciting.
I met a boy who I am completly gaga over and hes everything I have looked for
keep in mind im only 18 tho.
hes funny charming sweet cute has the same taste in humor and fashion and music.hes very unique. hes AMAZING. Ive been in love before but this time Im older and Ive actually had time to get to KNOW him and spend time with his family and alot of time with him.
so much so that I started slipping away from people.but hey Im in love....
but since I have been with him Ive changed alot...slowly, to where I just now noticed.
Im broken up with every other day for the stupidest reasons.
Im put down when I dont agree with him..
I am losing myself here...
noone knows what I go through when its just me and him though, or what he says ont he phone in private.
we connect on such an intense level of love, Ive never had someone I could just talk to for hours...a guy at least. but he also is overprotective and doesnt let me go out with my friends without him...
he has so much anger problems hes lost alot of his friends from that and the ones he has left are bad influences as in drugs and partys.
everyone says leave...but I CANT.He has so many emotional problems and its not like I dont understand him, hes been through ALOT and deserves someone to finally just stick around and stop leaving him.
but at the same time its eating me alive everyday, everytime Im ready to give up I either give into my thoughts of him or he comes running back to me finally.
like a never ending routine.
ahhh so much more I could say but I just need to VENT...
WTF do I do!!!!!!
Ive always been such a strong girl and brave and outgoing friendly bold, blunt daring, exciting.
I met a boy who I am completly gaga over and hes everything I have looked for
keep in mind im only 18 tho.
hes funny charming sweet cute has the same taste in humor and fashion and music.hes very unique. hes AMAZING. Ive been in love before but this time Im older and Ive actually had time to get to KNOW him and spend time with his family and alot of time with him.
so much so that I started slipping away from people.but hey Im in love....
but since I have been with him Ive changed alot...slowly, to where I just now noticed.
Im broken up with every other day for the stupidest reasons.
Im put down when I dont agree with him..
I am losing myself here...
noone knows what I go through when its just me and him though, or what he says ont he phone in private.
we connect on such an intense level of love, Ive never had someone I could just talk to for hours...a guy at least. but he also is overprotective and doesnt let me go out with my friends without him...
he has so much anger problems hes lost alot of his friends from that and the ones he has left are bad influences as in drugs and partys.
everyone says leave...but I CANT.He has so many emotional problems and its not like I dont understand him, hes been through ALOT and deserves someone to finally just stick around and stop leaving him.
but at the same time its eating me alive everyday, everytime Im ready to give up I either give into my thoughts of him or he comes running back to me finally.
like a never ending routine.
ahhh so much more I could say but I just need to VENT...
WTF do I do!!!!!!
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Comments
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You need to lay down the law and tell him that him being this way is hurting you and that you really want to help him but first he needs to help himself.
You may have to leave him before something really bad happens to you as well.
If this is gonna keep hurting you then eventually, you'll both break and that isn't good.Posted 15-09-09 at 07:22 AM by Antigone
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Its natural to change because of the people you love, this isn't always a bad thing. But if you don't like the person that you are becoming you can always change your paths, and if he cares about you he will understand this. I'm not saying split with him because it sounds like you have something amazing together, but you have to first state that you feel he has changed and that this bothers you. Tell him you are going to stay away from his "bad influences" and he should do the same. Then if YOU feel you can't put up with his bad temper leave him because its only for the best. So in short.. tell him how you feel.
hope i helped a little (:Posted 15-09-09 at 04:30 PM by Mel
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thank you guys I will try...:(Posted 15-09-09 at 07:46 PM by Setmyselfonfire
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