its a shit life
Posted 25-06-10 at 05:30 AM by Xxlucy-looxX
all my life i have been bullied because im not smart or because i am ugly. i have never had a boyfriend and the person that i have loved for 5 years has a girl friend every time i think of him i just want to cry because i miss all of the memories that we had when we where bestfriends. also i dont have any friends and when i go over to talk to the friends i use to have they just walk away because they hate me i relly want to move school but most of my family went there and it is kinda like a tridition and when i asked my mum she says thats a perfects school when she clearly doesnt understand me all i want is to be loved i dont care about money or phones or anything like that all i need is to be loved x
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Heyy hunn :/
School can be a harsh place espercially with some of the people that are in them , I know what its like to bullied i was for five years and it reali messed me about
until recent ive never had boyfriends they just didnt happen but i didnt them . And as for friend ive never been without but as for you maybe moving schools would help start a fresh l i did and thats how things got better have uu sat with your mum and explained the situation ?xxPosted 25-06-10 at 04:16 PM by Lauren_Kay
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i would love to move school because when i got bullied in primary i moved to a different primary school and i have never regreted it but if i tell my mum what is going on she will phone up the school and try to make everything better but thats why it gets worse because if my mum phones up the principle would want to talk to them and after that they would corner me and keep asking all these things and then i would feel upset and then i am just back to the same situation i know my mum tries to do what is right for me but i would talk to her if she never phoned the school and also when i have spoken to her about some other problems she has went up and phoned i know she tries to do what is best for me but i wish someone could just make this whole problem go away and i know it isnt as easy as that but i can try.Posted 26-06-10 at 12:51 AM by Xxlucy-looxX
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That's one of the problems with schools dealing with bullying - sometimes the way they go about stopping it just agitates the bullies and makes them worse!
It's important that you do tell someone what you're going through, though. If you find that you're unhappy at home, doing worse at school, going off of your food or simply behaving differently because of how the bullying's making you feel, your family will worry. If you let them know that you're having trouble with people at school, it will at least ease their minds in regards to what's bothering you.
Everyone - regardless of what they look like, how intelligent they are, where they come from and who they know - suffers from some form of bullying at some point. Don't feel that you're the ugliest or the dumbest just because a group of cruel children tell you so: both beauty and intelligence are subjective, and you know what? Chances are, these bullies don't know anything about either.
I'm sorry that school's miserable for you at the moment, but typically maturity comes with age, and this bullying won't last forever.
Have you thought about joining a club that you're interested in to try and make new friends? The time away from school and in a different environment with different peers might cheer you up.
Lastly, I just want to say that bullies react to reaction. Do your best to ignore people that are intent on putting you down, and if you can, tell a teacher that you're comfortable talking to that you feel unhappy and threatened. They might be able to arrange an assembly for the whole school that brings up the topic without naming names and getting you into trouble.Posted 26-06-10 at 06:01 AM by bambi vision
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well people can be assholes, thats what iv learnt. i was bullied all through primary. i didnt have many friends the ones i did have ran off to be with the "popular" people. You have to stay strong, try block to those people out. These people are all losers, alot of the bullies from primary go to my highschool have become the biggest losers now. There wasting there lives drinking,smoking, doing drugs getting thrown in jail, and thats what they think is cool. And these "friends" of yours, just dont bother with them, if they dont want you as a friend its their loss. Eventually you'll find the right group of people.Posted 05-07-10 at 07:56 PM by Disintigration
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