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Old 15-05-11, 07:19 AM   #1
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Do you guys think love and sex are too different things that doesn't necessarily come together.
Or do you think it does come together?
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Old 15-05-11, 07:27 AM   #2
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It can, but not for everyone. Just because you have sex doesn't mean you're in love and just because you're in love doesn't mean you have sex.









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It can, but not for everyone. Just because you have sex doesn't mean you're in love and just because you're in love doesn't mean you have sex.
This about sums it up.

There's always affairs and one night stands.

As for love w/o sex, I don't know. Some people don't like it?
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In my opinion they do, well in my life they do. As for the majority - no.









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It's definitely not the same.. I don't honestly see how anyone can think they go together.. Like seriously, You love someone, a girl, you're ready to have sex, she says no to sex, so you going to stop loving her? ridiculous. Love is over loving the person, them-self, who they are, what they stand for, etc etc. You don't need sex with that, you shouldn't need sex with that. And if you believe you need sex to love someone then you really honestly, don't know what real love is.. And yeah, probably just offended some here, but oh well. It's dumb to think you need to be having sex with someone to love them, or be in love with them.









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^ I know for a fact you offended over half the people here. But it's okay, because I totally agree and you put into the words I've been trying to say for a long time.









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Old 15-05-11, 10:13 AM   #7
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Definately not the same thing.
Definately don't come together.

I don't love my bf but we have sex. And in the real world I don't think you are always "in love" with everyone you have sex with.








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I was more asking the question in the way that. Do you think you can be in love with someone your not sexually attract to ? And be sexually attract to someone you don't love?
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I was more asking the question in the way that. Do you think you can be in love with someone your not sexually attract to ? And be sexually attract to someone you don't love?
Can you be in love with someone you aren't sexually attracted to? I don't think so, it's human nature.

Can you be sexually attracted without being in love? Yes, definately.








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Do you think you can be in love with someone your not sexually attract to ? And be sexually attract to someone you don't love?
Oh sure! I've seen it happen a lot. Normally it's the latter rather than the former, but yeah both are totally possible.
Although, typically, with the former sexual attraction can form as the love grows. It's just that you're not sexually attracted to them based on material things. It's just that a sexual attraction forms as you get to know and you feel emotionall and personally connected to them. I know this, because it's happened to me before (and in my case it's the only way I can be sexually attracted to a person).
It's called Secondary Sexual Attraction. Which you can read about here, if you want.
And with the latter, yeah it happens everyday. It's natural to be attracted to material things after all.









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