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Yes I think you are more or less born with your sexual identity you may not realize that you are some thinng other then hetrosexual but you are and you nor anyone else can change that
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Fifteen percent concentrated power of will
Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain
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Yes I think you are more or less born with your sexual identity you may not realize that you are some thinng other then hetrosexual but you are and you nor anyone else can change that
The reason why I say that I completely disagree is because when you're little or born you know nothing of being bi, straight, etc. Plus some people usually start out one thing & turn into another thing later. for example my best friend was straight.until the 8th grade. What happened? I guess she couldn't find a boyfriend... she never did say.
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Originally Posted by Chewbie
I think people are born with their sexual orientation and, of course, sexual identity.
I dont believe that we are born with an identity , we live and gain it , I think it is more based on How people live , Where? Under which society , under what Parents . It comes with the Experience each person gains through their life . What they Follow? What they WANT to follow . How open they are .
It is Obvious that each person will live and through time will discover new things about their self , which will give them the right to change their opinion . You are not Born with a Sexual identity . No .... You work and Gain it after you live .
It is Obvious that each person will live and through time will discover new things about their self , which will give them the right to change their opinion . You are not Born with a Sexual identity . No .... You work and Gain it after you live .
I disagree with this.
Sexual identity is not based on the environment you grew up.
And definitely, you cannot decide your sexual identity.
I dont believe that we are born with an identity , we live and gain it , I think it is more based on How people live , Where? Under which society , under what Parents . It comes with the Experience each person gains through their life . What they Follow? What they WANT to follow . How open they are .
It is Obvious that each person will live and through time will discover new things about their self , which will give them the right to change their opinion . You are not Born with a Sexual identity . No .... You work and Gain it after you live .
I agree with you 100%
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Originally Posted by Chewbie
I disagree with this.
Sexual identity is not based on the environment you grew up.
And definitely, you cannot decide your sexual identity.
Why not? You don't think that your environment doesn't shape up who you are?
The reason why I say that I completely disagree is because when you're little or born you know nothing of being bi, straight, etc. Plus some people usually start out one thing & turn into another thing later. for example my best friend was straight.until the 8th grade. What happened? I guess she couldn't find a boyfriend... she never did say.
Why do you think this way?
Of course you dont think you are anything as a baby you are a baby.
And i don't think people change their sexuality from hetrosexual to whichever, i think its drilled into kids head from a young age a girl and a boy love eachother ,so they think thats normal then once they get older they realizes they dont like that, it was with them the whole time they didnt know it
Spring showers Bring May flowers
"This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will
Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain
And a hundred percent reason to remember the name!"
Sexual identity is not based on the environment you grew up.
And definitely, you cannot decide your sexual identity.
Well Respected .
Based on Both philosophy and Phychology , the Environment is one of the most Basic things a Human is based on and works on .
Abusive parents = Abusive Kids... Because thats what they got taught .
Homophobic parents = Homophobic Kids .... because thats what they got taught. ( Of course if you are more open minded and happen to Find out the rest world's Culture and way of thinking , You go through it )
sometimes we put up walls , not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to knock them down.