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Last night I called my 1 and only friend and when he answered, I heard some people in the background and he told me he was at the movies. I was so mad that a few tears started coming out my eyes. He said he would talk to me later and hung up. He has other friends and I think he doesn't won't me to be around them for some reason. After hanging up, I started to think to myself why would he not invite me? I came to the conclusion that he is ashamed of me being around him with his other friends. Whenever we do talk on the phone, I ask him to tell his family I said hi for me and he says NO. I am sick of him and should I stop being friends with him? Please let me know.

:O omg, I have the same problem but I don't know if their ashamed of me :( they just never invite me anywhere, but when I do go out with them,, they leave me like I doubt I'm that bad...

He is not worth it, you can do better...find better friends

You don't have enough info here to make an assumption. You need to get that, calmly and non accusatorily ask him if he's intentionally excluding you or not, if you are doing something that bugs him.

Being friends doesn't mean you're always entitled to be included in everything, all the time. Part of the problem here might be that he's your "only" friend, you might be overly dependent on him, which isn't a good thing for either of you. Consider making new friends and having other people (and activities) to involve yourself in, and see if your feelings (and the relationship) with him change for the better.

he sounds like a horrible person no affense, bt yh find new friends n treat him the way he treats yu see how he likes it !x

Agreed.

Disagreed. That's just childish.


@Superwoman33

First of all I'd suggest broading your social circle. You claim this guy is your one and only friend, which isn't the most healthy of life styles to live. Humans need to interact with other humans, so having just one person to depend on isn't exactly going to help you very much. As a person I don't know much about you, and I certainly don't know what you like, however I strongly suggest you take part in activities which you enjoy doing. This should, with any luck, help you meet more people.

As for the guy and whether or not you should be friends; I wouldn't concern yourself with it too much. Like Spock said, you don't have enough information here to assume he's ashamed with you. Keep in contact with him by all means, but try and do the things I suggested above so that you can make more, potentionaly better and much stronger friendships.

You should try and talk with him 'bout that... =/

why don't you try finding new online friends too and chatting to them as long as your internet-safe etc (y) no harm done ^-^

go to under 18's partys and social events..or organise one yourself

lovoooo x