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CSQL · 06-12-10, 07:04 PM

If your thinking, or even starting to quote the idea of suicide or self harm just take a few seconds of your time to read the rest of my post, i hope that you will make sense of it and that it will be greatly helpful to you.

Suicide, one moments pain, for another's long lasting sadness.
Suicide, a given regret in return for the end of a life.
Suicide, the only way out?

3 Very strong lines. This has always been the strongest focus points of suicide for me. So let me explain them to you;

Suicide, one moments pain, for another's long lasting sadness.

One of the main reasons someone will look to commit suicide is because they are experiencing a un-durable amount of pain, if this be emotionally or physically. They think that if they indeed commit suicide this pain will no longer be a burden on them. But, if your in pain, and you think that this is the best option, because it will relieve the pain, then stop. There is someone out their in the world that will miss you, in some way or another. Your partner you have yet to meet, your child you have yet to raise, your parents. Do you really want to put it upon someone else to hold the burden of your pain and suffering? Allowing your one moments pain, to cause them a life long lasting sadness for missing you? Because that person, if truly loves you, is a person worth living for.

Suicide, a given regret in return for the end of a life.

Do you want someone to regret? Do you want your life, to come to an end to prove a point? Is this something that really, you need to do to make someone understand? The end of a life is worth alot more than a point to prove. Your life is so worth more than the end of its life. Live your life, for the sake of you, and the others around you.

Suicide, the only way out?

No. Suicide is never to been seen as a way out. There are so many different things, options and choices to be made, and jumping to suicide should not be one of them, not even close. Think about what your about to do, think about how much pain it may cause to someone else, how much it may hurt them to know your now gone.

Suicide is a very hard thing to go through. IF you have ever lost a family member, for any kind of reason its so hard to cope, some people do it better than others, but in the end, everyone reaches out in their time of need. How would you feel, after so many years of hard work, raising your most loving creation, its suddenly taken away from you, by its own choice. It must be devastating.

If your going to end your life, think about how much you may mean to someone you have not met yet. That special someone, who must live their live on their own because they were not able to find you, to love, to hold, and to keep you in there arms forever.

Think about how much you can do with your life, what you can see, feel, taste, experience and achieve. You may not know it, but the world is so much bigger then that tiny spec of a city you live in, and there is so more much to explore than what you have already seen.

IF your going to do it, ask your self this first. Why?

Is your reason, a good enough reason, to make someone live their life on their own. To cause huge and unspeakable amounts of pain to loved ones, to make them feel even worse at their times of suffering? Because if you do this, it will stamp in there memories forever.

Are you really that bad off?

Think about other people, not just the people in your house, your school, or your country. Think about the people that don't have lives past 20, the people that lose children at young ages, which life they would gladly swap for their children's.

Your life is a gift. Keep it, treasure it and at the worst times in life, look forward to the good times yet to come.

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I am here to talk if anyone needs it.

Thanks, and God Bless to everyone, and their choices.