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This is always a tricky thing because we never really can ever go back to how something was, it's like a photograph. That picture taken in that place, in that way, at that second, with that lighting, etc. That place in time will NEVER come again, ever. So in a way that's how our minds work as well, once we know something we cannot undo it. So, what we have to do here now is build another door, put another door up. we have to accept the difference in this door, accept it's not the same, but it will help. In your mind build thing door with a stronger material, have it be more secure and harder. Fight those feelings/that side hard. Tell yourself your need door and block/wall towards the thing is harder. Just block out what you want to block, or be on the side you want to be and ignore the door and the things changed. Over time, you'll learn to come accustom to these changes and it'll seem like the "normal" like before did. Depending on the subject, it's hard. very hard to see things differently but it is possible to take away that hurt or scared feeling of things being different. Find something else to hold onto. Find a sense of new security and try and ignore the thing on the other side of the door. Even if it's like with a person, you can see/talk to the person but ignore and don't allow yourself to think of the feelings that was once there with that person.


Not sure that helped any, but best I could do with vague. Please know you can IM me on MSN any time and give me more information and maybe can help more.

Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.

Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3

Oh, I'm sorry, OP was just the ramblings of a schizophrenic. I wasn't even lucid when I made this.

but all the same. Thank you guys. Especially you Kate. <3 I'm in awe at the effort and thought you put into your advice despite how vague and probably confusing it was.

You're certainly welcome <3
It's good to hear that you don't think like that as much in your normal state.
It's a hard thing to live like that, I do know that.

Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.

Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3

If one door opens to another door closed, I hope you keep on walking till you find the window<3 Good luck.