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Old 26-01-10, 07:09 PM   #1
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I had just gone through a rough patch with my best guy friend. And I love him so much that it was killing me inside. We got things sorted out and told each other things that we've barely told anyone. We were just leaving my house when he said that he valued our friendship very much and that if we hadn't talked he probably would have killed himself... he was serious. I gave him a huge hug(that he wasn't expecting) and as he walked away I shut the door and began to cry uncontrollably. We both have pretty tough lives and I told him about when I've contemplated suicide, and I have yet to tell anyone other than my mom about the time I had an argument with my dad and step mom and tried cutting myself... I found out that it's very difficult to do with a pin, but it left a scar that I managed to put so it looks like the crease on my wrist continues. I blamed it on plastic flowers to my friends when they asked about the band-aid. I guess that my point is that I am emotionally unstable and under a lot of stress. I've contemplated suicide numerous times and the thing with my guy friend made me happy that we fixed it but I still cry when I think about it... Should I tell my doctor? Would there be a medication to somewhat stabilize me? I don't know. I just think that backing out is the easiest answer sometimes...
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Old 27-01-10, 02:22 AM   #2
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I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. My advice would be to go and see someone about it and ask for some help. Go to your doctor and they will talk to you about how you feel and everything. They won't judge you for it or laugh at you and they'll do whatever they can to help you. I don't know about the rules where you live but they might not necessarily tell your parents about it if you don't want them to. After you've spoken to your doctor, they might arrange for you to see a therapist or counselor for you to talk to and make you feel better. They might prescribe some medication but that's not guaranteed; you might no need it. They will definitely do everything they can to make you feel better and help you control your emotions.

If you're really close to this guy then maybe you could suggest it to him too. It could help him as well and if you like the help you're getting you can tell him what it's like and how much it's helped you. I'm probably getting a little ahead of myself hear but it's worth considering.

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Old 27-01-10, 04:26 AM   #3
 
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what kind of guy freaks after a hug after what u been though? he should have given the hug!


other then that listen to josh its the best choice.
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Thanks, I'm going to see my doctor for a check up next week so I'll bring it up then.
"what kind of guy freaks after a hug after what u been though?" the hug was given after we sorted everything out so he's not a jerk or anything. He's unstable too but we support each other, he has a form of autism but you really can't telll unless he tells you. But thank you both. I'll give it a try!
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