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Old 24-05-11, 07:24 PM   #1
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I can tell my boyfriend is frustrated with my best friend who hates him for unknown reasons. But because my boyfriend really likes me he won't say anything. He told my other friend how frustrated and angry he was. I didn't think she was really around so often until I looked back and realized how she was there for every part of our relationship and literally pushing us apart. She gets mad so easily and I don't know how to tell her that she needs to give us space sometimes. I really do love her though, and I would never choose my boyfriend over her, but she's just too much a part of our relationship and it's getting me angry as well.
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You should talk to your friend, and ask her why she dislikes your boyfriend so much.

And if she doesn't have a good reason, and your relationship with your boyfriend is healthy and trusting, etc., I'm sorry, but you should probably "dump" your friend. I was in the same situation, and realized that if my friend was a real friend, she wouldn't get in the way, and she would be happy for me, etc.
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Hi Vera,

*Phew*! Thanks so much for not making this some penis question, the title had me going there for a minute. It's not that I don't answer those, I just so much more prefer the emotional ones...

Anyways, bravo for your boyfriend for being tolerant here! However, there's a limit to that, and it shouldn't ever come down to having to make a choice. Real love means understanding people have different needs, and accepting them. Real love is never selfish.

And unless you bff has the skinny on some dark, well kept secret on your b/f, then she is being selfish. And, as difficult as this sounds, you have to come up with a way of addressing this with her, b/c she will smother you and do her best to prevent you from having a b/f...she seems to see them as a real threat to her attachment to you.

Try reassuring her of the importance of the relationship you have with her, and the need to always make sure you and she have the time together you both need...but you expect her support ...or at the very last, tolerance for your b/f's...so she can at least keep her insecurity and jealousy to her self and not have it interfere.

Love's often a balancing act, and although it's easier when everyone see's the bigger picture, we're all human and sometimes our insecurity gets in the way. if you're gentle about it, the reassurance you provide should help her see your b/f as he is...an asset for a friend she cares about, rather than some peprsonal liability that keeps you away from her.
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Get a backbone and tell her how you feel, its annoying when people say stuff like 'i dont know how to tell them' its easier than everyone thinks it is.
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hum..you should really talk to her, i've saw one's that history..in the end..the friend use to said that she didnt like her friend's boyfriend..because she was in love with him..so she did everything to step back and dont see him anymore..plus talking bad.

Im not saying that's the case.. i mean..she must have a reason..

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tell her honestly how you feel and she'll understand maybe she didn't realize how she was affecting your relationship with your boyfriend.
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