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Old 03-06-11, 11:20 PM   #1
 
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i was supposed to have a study group with 3 of my friends. one of them is the guy i kinda like. They were supposed to come to my dorm at 12 today. I assumed the guy i liked, calvin, wasn't gonna come because i didnt get a certain answer about whether or not he was gonna come. But i waited with my other friend who came over ,Becky, until 12:20, and no one showed up. So i called my friend Helena and asked her if she was coming. She said something like "No one's gonna go, so i'm not going." which i thought was odd, because i was talking to my other guy friend Joe the night before and he said he was going. But then, i assumed that they talked this morning and he changed his mind and wasn't gonna come, so i left with Becky. Needless to say, I was fuming. While on the road with Becky, my roommate suddenly called me and told me that Calvin came, so i was in a situation. Becky had to go pick up something and then go to work, so she couldn't take me back to school. And then Joe called me and i told him that Helena said that no one was coming, so i left. He sounded really pissed and was like "ok well i'm going home then. Thanks a lot." My roommate then texted me saying that Calvin went to the library, if i was able to come back soon. I begged Becky to drive me back, and she reluctantly did. When i go back, i immediately went to the library but couldn't find Calvin, so i left. Our final is on Monday, and i'm worried that what happened today will change our friendship. I've cooled off, but i'm worried that they're all mad at me. I know it's my fault. I shouldn't have left with Becky, and i shouldn't have assumed that they weren't coming just because Helena said so. I don't want this to ruin our friendship. What should i do? I've apologized to them too.
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Old 04-06-11, 12:36 AM   #2
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Focus on your revision!
Deal with your friends after
You need to get ready for your finals
don't rely on friends to study with you.
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Old 05-06-11, 11:40 AM   #3
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There's merit in what Sarah said. ^

However, to offer a genuine apology to your friends and move on would be my advice for this situation.








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Forget about your friends for now. How many of them are going to stick with you in the future, and how long are your results going to stick with you? Think about it. Good luck in your exams though. Focus. You'll do fine. Your friends should understand that you're under a lot of pressure right now. They're feeling the same and that's probably why you're getting the vibe that you're friends are annoyed. You're all stressed. You'll laugh about it later. Don't worry!
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