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Old 08-06-11, 06:46 PM   #1

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There are a few girls in my classes who are all friends. At first they were nice but now they're making me feel uncomfortable. They don't really bother my friends, mostly me, though one of them has slapped one of my friends on the ass in the locker room while my friend was just in her underwear.


And of course, these girls think all of this is okay, and that they're just "kidding", and that we're "friends".


In the locker room, one of the girls commented on my body, that it's nice, etc. etc. Fine, thank you, I don't care.
But it gets really annoying when she comes up to me and starts telling me that some guy thinks I'm hot, that that guy is really shy, but that he wants to kiss me. Another one of those girls told half of my P.E. class that I fingered my ex-bf in the arse and gave him blowjobs (not true). Now some of the guys constantly ask me if they can "have some".
In my Science class today, they told me that I have a nice ass. After I said thank you and ignored them, they started talking about my ass louder and louder, saying that it's "nice" and "big" and "bubbly" (WTF?). And when I stood up to turn in one of my papers, they practically screamed throughout the whole classroom: "Hey everybody! Wow, look at that! Look at her ass! Isn't it HOT?"
They also told a few people that I apparently take drugs.

And tommorow, G-d help me, I have them in both PE and Math class.

What do I do?! Am I over-reacting or something, because I feel so uncomfortable, and they just think it's all a joke!
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Old 08-06-11, 07:25 PM   #2
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Tell them off. Be an asshole. It works when you're talking to people that are assholes.

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Old 09-06-11, 06:06 AM   #3
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Alright, you've really got one option here. Don't beat around the bush; take care of it quickly.

If anyone makes comments about your body or your sexual activities, you need to let them know that it's wrong and it makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't take it from them. Tell them that they need to stop.

Fact is, it's unlikely they'll stop. If it doesn't stop, you need to take it higher and see a teacher or a pincipal to get the issue dealt with. This isn't basic name-calling here. This is verbal sexual abuse and it has to end.

Responding to it by getting angry is a great way to make them shout more abuse, so just ignore it if it continues and tell someone in authority.








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I agree with both of the above responses (Yay!).

You start by being polite, telling them they need to stop. Don't thank someone for saying something inappropriate and unwanted, like comments about your body!

If that doesn't work, play along with them....so, frankly, you could tell the girls in the locker room that you've asked her to stop, and that you now must assume that her continuing to comment must mean she likes girls! "Hey, everyone! "X" likes my 'y', she likes girls!" Nothing works like a little humiliation.

Ditto with the guys, making a quick, discreet comment to an obnoxious boy who 'wants some' about what you've heard from the other guys about him and his size will quickly stop that line of comment, too.

Be careful, don't lose your cool, and start off easy. If you take this tact, it can back fire if not done correctly.
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I agree with the other responses x
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lol sweety you just have to take them down.. i really dont like being bitchy..but when it comes to that type of people u really should find a way to be a jerk wth them.. as they are with you.









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Are you attractive then or are they simply mocking your looks. I know this may sound harsh, but they may be mocking you and being sarcastic which is even worse and you should ignore it. Trust me, if you say anything about a guys penis size being small it will destroy them. Pertend you were going to give one of the guys 'some' and then you saw it and its tiny. Spread that and theyll stop mocking you and start mocking the tw*t whos asking you 'for some'. As regards to the girls, simply say that the girl has been texting you, dirty texts, saying she 'likes' you. You can even fake it if shes an utter tw*t also. Simply get one of your mates to send you these certain texts but change the name of that contact to the girl whos hurting you. Loads of fun for you x
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Stop taking their crap. If they're really friends, they won't do that, so just tell them off.
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