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Old 23-06-11, 06:23 PM   #1
 
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Don't get me wrong, I love my friends, but sometimes I feel like I don't belong in the group that I'm in. My group of friends that I hang out with consists of 3 of us (including me). My friends are really smart, sometimes sick-minded, and they are EXTREMELY weird, but in a good way.

I just have these times where I wish I had different friends, ones who understood the way that I'm feeling because they never understand the that i feel even though they think they do. And sometimes I just want to be left alone, but I don't want to say that to them because it makes me feel weird if I'm not around people, especially at school, because then I feel like a loser even though I'm not.

Besides, they're the only group of friends I have because nobody else bothers to talk to me, and then I also have this feeling that I'm drifting away from them. I've had this feeling before, but everyday it keeps getting worse.
I would love some advice on what I should do because i have no idea whatsoever
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Old 23-06-11, 06:48 PM   #2
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You feel like they don't understand you? Then there's a way to fix it. Tell them how you feel directly. They are your friends right? A real friend is always honest with another. They will support you, if you tell them how you feel.

You feel like you're drifting away from them, well sharing your feelings with them will probably keep them close. That's what friends are for.
Don't bother with idiots who don't talk to you, but focus on these friends who like you, and accept you the way you are.









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The thing is every time I try to tell them how I feel I start to feel weird
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Default Re: Advice About My Friends......Please!!!!

I have this problem constantly.

One of my bestfriends, me and her were like inseperable* and then we started drifting, and not long ago we had a heart to heart about how we miss how we was and i even cried cause of some of the things she was saying<3
It might be hard,but just talk to them, one by one preferably And make more of an effort like wiht taking part in things?
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The thing is every time I try to tell them how I feel I start to feel weird
this is normal unless you are the most confident person on earth

i only have one friend that i feel i can talk completely openly with and being able to do so at least some of the time really helps




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