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Ok well i went to my first party on saturday night and i had a really good time, i didnt drink but i did hook up with a guy, we didnt do much but we did kiss and i had a hickey on my neck, anyway when i got home mum noticed the hickey and automatically asked weather i slept with someone, i said i didnt and told her what happened but she didnt believe me, i finally convinced her that i hadn't well until today.

She somehow heard rumours are going around up at me that are going around about me up at home saying that i had slept with some random amoung other stuff and now she doesnt believe me at all, i know nothing happened but she wont believe me and she has lost all trust me.

Is there anyway i can get her to believe me, should i get he guy to talk to her or some of my friends that were at the party? any ideas?

If that was me i'd just let her get over it.
If your mum doesn't believe you then there's not really a lot you can do. She might not believe your friends either, and i dunno about getting the guy to talk to her, that might be a bit awkward..

Or you can just go the other way and admit to having done more with the guy, but try to convince your mother that you're always and will always be safe while being sexually active. If all goes well, you don't need to worry about your mother when you have sex in the future . Unless of course she's completely not open to the idea that you can have sex at whatever age you might be. If that's the case, then deny deny deny

^ Was considering that but mum would kill me unfortunatly, she doesnt think her "baby girl" is anywhere near ready to be having sex, even tho im legal age and i am quiet mature, know all the risks ect but mum is just going off, im glad im at boarding school at the moment, hopefully by the time im ready to go home she will be over it... just as annoying because i had finally managed to get her to trust me