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Old 22-11-11, 08:02 AM   #1
 
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Tomorrow after school my friend is meeting a guy off the internet outside McDonalds...
Basically, a few weeks ago on Facebook my friend had a random add from this guy, and they started talking. After the first time they spoke (Maybe second, but I think first) he suggested going shopping and she said no. A few weeks later they've arranged to meet tomorrow.
They have like 5 mutual friends and apparently theirs pictures of him with her old drama club friends and he apparently goes to the drama club she used to go to. (But something doesn't add up, he is the same age as my brother and they go to the same drama club place, but there's only one drama group for that age group. He apparently goes on a Monday (I think she said that) and my brother goes on a Wednesday, however they could've made another group and she may've said Wednesday and I mis heard. Also my brother and this guy aren't Facebook friends and my brother befriends anyone o_O)
Ummm He is 17 and she has recently turned 15. Her parents are gonna drop her near McDonalds and then she's gonna wait for him... I don't know whether to worry or not, people can be whoever they want on the internet, hmmm... What do you think?









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Old 22-11-11, 08:09 AM   #2
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Yeah there's a definite risk here and with things not adding up I'd suggest telling her mom? Or maybe your brother could go sit in Mcdonalds or something and see if he recognizes him? I don't know but it sounds a bit off to me.









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Well, her mum knows and she seems fine with it and is just going to drop her off nearby, but I suggested that her mum or dad or whoever takes her talk to him?

My brother is at drama club tomorrow... Where he should be apparently... My brother is coming home soon I'll ask if theirs 2 senior groups









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Turns out there is also a drama group on a monday!









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Well, regardless if it's safe or not that mom is fucked up for just leaving a 15 year old there. My gosh, if your 18 fine, but a 15 year old girl?! -.-








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You're right, people can be anybody they want on the internet... What's that you're thinking? The answer is yes. I am indeed a 43 year old accountant who is a moonlight pedophile rapist.

But yeah, your explanation of the whole things sounds a bit strange. I'd definitely get her brother to accompany her. If the guy doesn't show himself, it might be somebody like me.
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Sorry I'm not the mood for jokes, this is serious
I suggested taking her brother and she laughed and said 'no'. D: Dunno what to do









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Maybe suggest that her mom waits in the car before she drives off? Or maybe waits with her?
You could always ask your mom to go sit in the car and wait with you after she's dropped off if it's this serious?
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She'll be fine. She's gonna be in public. Just tell her to hang back and look for him, if she spots him and it looks like him in the pics then she's probably fine.








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