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then don't be nice, what do you care? you wont have to deal with her again xD
I guess not. But still, to hurt her feelings is mean
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Originally Posted by Flame
Does she have anyone else to talk to, or hang out with? She sounds lonely to me. Or she might like you.
She only calls me or comes to find me when she's lonely.
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Originally Posted by Catch-22
I think she has a crush on you Just ask her to give you some space, is all.
Ugh. D:
If I ask her to give me some space she'll just be like, "I'm hardly around you..." because hse isn't, only when she needs me.
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Originally Posted by Gray
void her , say your busy , it always works.
I've been doing that as much as I can for ages.
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Originally Posted by Triteia
If you don't like her, tell her to leave you alone. It doesn't matter if you're nice or not. If she annoys you, who cares what her or her friends think?
I care if I hurt her by asking her to leave me alone D;
Could you talk to her about how she's acting? Ask her not to talk to her friends about you, post your conversations and so on?
Stop waiting at her bus stop. When she waits for you after a class say you need to go speak with a teacher. When she calls, don't answer. When she needs to talk to her, tell her you're not in the mood because you've got a problem of your own (If she wants to help tell her you don't want to talk about it.) Start hanging out with your own friends more often. This might hurt her, but sometimes you have to think of yourself. I know that's not easy for some people, and people like you who care a lot, but sometimes it has to happen. I know that's hard, but think about whether or not you want this to continue. You have to get through to her somehow, at this point it has to be in a blunt way. There's no other way out of this if you've been trying to ignore her for a while.
Could you talk to her about how she's acting? Ask her not to talk to her friends about you, post your conversations and so on?
Stop waiting at her bus stop. When she waits for you after a class say you need to go speak with a teacher. When she calls, don't answer. When she needs to talk to her, tell her you're not in the mood because you've got a problem of your own (If she wants to help tell her you don't want to talk about it.) Start hanging out with your own friends more often. This might hurt her, but sometimes you have to think of yourself. I know that's not easy for some people, and people like you who care a lot, but sometimes it has to happen. I know that's hard, but think about whether or not you want this to continue. You have to get through to her somehow, at this point it has to be in a blunt way. There's no other way out of this if you've been trying to ignore her for a while.
Thanks for the advice.
I'm not answering her calls and stuff. She's started putting like, 5-7 'x's on the end of her texts now. I feel like a 12-year-old running away from her friend
I'm just going to blunt it out, like you said. Thanks.
God, so many rude peepssss! I wouldn't have the heart to hurt the girl either.
I think avoiding her might press her into wanting to be with you more, unless she eventually gives in. And I think what is mostly annoying you is the fact that you have to push her away everytime. So, the only solution I see is to really confront her, but always with a friendly smile on. Tell her randomly something around this... "Jeez, you look like a stalker, lately. Am I that handsome? Do you have a crush on me or something?" or even sarcastically "Hah, long time no see."
If she's smart enough to get the irony, she'll be wise to back up a little. Keep us updateddddd.
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