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Old 30-01-12, 07:05 PM   #1
 
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Default What's wrong with having guy friends?

I'm a girl and a lot of my friends are guys. A lot of other people come up to me and say, "Oh do you like them? You two should date! When are you getting married?" It really annoys me because the reason why I hang out with those guys and feel attracted to them is because they are funny and nice to me. I don't like them in any way at all, I am just happy to have them around.
I hang out with them often and always talk with them online and stuff. Others think that I like them, but that's not the case... Why does everyone assume that? I just have a good connection with them because I've been chilling with them for such a long time and they\re cool and friendly people.
So yeah I really wanna know why people jump to conclusion like that... -.-
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Old 30-01-12, 07:12 PM   #2
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Because people are morons who think that if you get anywhere close to the opposite sex then you obviously want them in your pants.

Which is stupid.

Meh, not much you can do to change their minds. Some people just can't accept men and women can be friends and only friends with no sexual or romantic interest in each other at all (because one of you would have to be gay for that to happen herpa derp!).









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Old 30-01-12, 07:14 PM   #3
 
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Because people are morons who think that if you get anywhere close to the opposite sex then you obviously want them in your pants.

Which is stupid.

Meh, not much you can do to change their minds. Some people just can't accept men and women can be friends and only friends with no sexual or romantic interest in each other at all (because one of you would have to be gay for that to happen herpa derp!).
haha you're probably right, there is notihng i can do to change it, but i'm just gonna have to live with it i guess...
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There's nothing wrong with having guys friends. A lot of my friends have always been guys since I'm a tomboy, and I always got the "Oh you two like each other right?" Ummmm, no. It's just something you'll have to deal with. People have a hard time thinking just friends really does mean just friends, because they're looking for some drama or something to talk about. As for your friends who think you like them, just talk to them and set them straight. They should understand if they're your friends. I've had to do that once or twice.




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Old 30-01-12, 07:52 PM   #5
 
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There's nothing wrong with having guys friends. A lot of my friends have always been guys since I'm a tomboy, and I always got the "Oh you two like each other right?" Ummmm, no. It's just something you'll have to deal with. People have a hard time thinking just friends really does mean just friends, because they're looking for some drama or something to talk about. As for your friends who think you like them, just talk to them and set them straight. They should understand if they're your friends. I've had to do that once or twice.
Thank you, I'll be sure to do thatt!
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Old 30-01-12, 09:46 PM   #6
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Your behavior around those guys might be a reason.









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Old 30-01-12, 09:51 PM   #7
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Because people are ignorant and think just because you are with the opposite sex yo want to bang said person

If some one was doing that to me i would make it awkward "no hun we wouldn't make a good couple, its you i want" that would shut them the hell up








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Old 30-01-12, 10:14 PM   #8
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There's nothing wrong with it. People will always jump to conclusions. It saves them the trouble of investigating and examining evidence in a more thorough manner.








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Old 30-01-12, 10:33 PM   #9
 
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Your behavior around those guys might be a reason.
behavior? what are you trying to imply here? we're all just friends...
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Old 30-01-12, 10:34 PM   #10
 
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Because people are ignorant and think just because you are with the opposite sex yo want to bang said person

If some one was doing that to me i would make it awkward "no hun we wouldn't make a good couple, its you i want" that would shut them the hell up
exactly true, thank you ...
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