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Well, this year I got a bestfriend, after having my old one die two years back..

And well. I kinda fucked it up. We got in a small fight, her boyfriend was there..and well..

She had told me a secret, that she needed space from him. and I said this during the fight:
"At least I'm not too pussy to tell the one I love I need space."

And yeah...

Also, we were chatting on Facebook..

she said this
"everytime we talk all we do is fight i'm tired of it
i'm tired of you blerting things out i tell you in secret
i'm tired of just breathing in geteral
general
your not helping
just leave me alone"

and I replied..

"done ranting?
and if your that damn tired of me, maybe we should just not be friends anymore.
you let me know."


So yeah. I have no clue what to do. Country boy can't fix this one ;P

you pretty much destroyed the trust she had on you

maybe go and give her some of the space she needs

I am not here to Judge the behaviour Of yours , or hers . Or Anybodys ... But If you really want my advice , If i was in your position i would try to Re-Talk to the Girl and Apologise . Sometimes someone needs to Take the First step in such Issues .

She told you what her problem is , She said She is sick of you 2 Fighting , personally i and a offline friend were fighting a lot lately , we agreed to get some space from each other . and Re-talk after a few days and forget about the past and never argue for the same thing . Dunno if it will work among us or You 2... But its an idea .

Maybe you should Apologise and let her know why you 2 fight all the time , discuss it without Fighting ..


As for the Secrets ... Yes another apology is required i believe . When someone Trusts you something you HAVE to keep it secret ,otherwise its a HUGE turn off .. and they Pretty much Get distant and kick you .


So my Suggestion? TALK to her . and do not fight this time , Solve it out , Apologise Take the first Step ...

Well she's incredibly stubborn is the issue. I can apologize but I think she legit wants me gone. For example:

We share a locker, she told me to get my shit out of it or it'll be burnt tuesday.

-.-

:/ .... Give her the space she needs like Weston said . And try to talk to her in a few days

Okay...

I feel terrible. I basically killed her relationship. He thinks she wants him to go away , but she just wants a little space, if that makes sense/:

The Good thing is that you Understood it , Take it as an example and try not to do the same mistake then .

Thanks I guess/:

Friendship is over offically; I guess.

When you're young it is really easy to get angry at friends, family, partners.

You learn how important it is to let shit go when you're older because after high school people become pretty expendable.

If you want to hold onto this friendship be the bigger person and avoid future fights, turn them into discussions