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Well Emma here,
I actually joined this forum because myself and my friends have a bit of a problem. There was a girl in our group who well isn't really in the group anymore, she started annoying one or two girls who made it obvious and then everyone began to get annoyed by the smallest things this girl would do. I myself never being as friendly with this girl as some of the other girls in the group.. But now me an my friend are stuck with her all of the time even though we were never as close with her. We have to go around with her at lunch, in the locker rooms etc, it was okay at the start but now after awhile it's getting a bit unfair. People in the group have literally stopped talking to her and she doesn't have anyone else, she also keeps tapping people during class and tests which is getting extremely annoying, it's the little things. This has gotten really far and I feel so sorry for the girl, we don't know what to do and we really want to make this better so at least we'll be able to look her in the eye and know we tried. Any advice please? Emmaxo

Well, I would suggest that you talk to her about it. Ask her to stop doing the little things that annoy you. She doesn't sound like a bad person. She just doesn't know that what she's doing is annoying. If you just tell her in a polite manner, she might be willing to stop. She probably doesn't even realize it. You don't have to stop being her friend or anything like that.

Yeah, approach it in a kind manner and maybe she'll lighten up. For all you know you guys might end up getting closer and actually enjoy her company. If she still doesn't she might sooner or later get the clue and leave.. Which we wouldnt want to happen.. But yeah. Just talk to her.

To be honest idk if we have enough info to give helpful advice Emma. I mean if can take sarcastic hints say something like omg beotch stopping being a lil annoying turd and be cool again. If she is clueless to hints but she can handle tough love just take her aside and say hey you are a sweet girl but others are getting annoyed at you, if you want I can tell you when you are annoying so you know when and you can stop it. There are plolly like easily 10 other ideas all for different types of personalities. Girls can be really really really mean to other girls and i hope you dont do that. i highly doubt you would bc you wouldve done that already and not come here for advice. So if you are that nice maybe just suck it up a bit longer and hope she grows out of her awkward/annoying stage. G'luck.

Try and talk to her, i mean you are friends.. You aint going to be rude.. your just going to ask her?

good luck!

xo