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A shallow piece of shit. There are guys that genuinely like me and are so sweet to me but they annoy me. Why? because I think they're lame/not very good looking. They are just so...lame that I am embarrassed I even associate myself with them.

Of course then I bitch about the hot guys ignoring me/cheating on me and of course i bitch about society's hard to achieve standards of beauty.

And I make myself sick....but I can't seem to shake the completely undeserving sense that I'm too good for them.

I hate myself.

For one, it's totally normal to be really into looks rather than personality.

It's a part of human nature to have physical/romantic attraction before emotional attraction. It's no reason to hate yourself, you can't change that about you.

*Oh, and btw, I DO throw rage fits.
If I get overly aggressive at you, just ignore me.

Overall, if you need help, please feel free to ask me for it.

you are a human being who makes mistakes. learn to forgive yourself.

Don't hate yourself because you have shallow moments. Now you're aware that you're doing something not-so-great. Make a conscious effort to change it.

“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”- Nelson Mandela

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A lot of people are like that. It's nothing to hate yourself for. It's not worth it. Even if it's something that you don't like, there are other qualities that you have that are good. And those are the things that you should focus on. Everyone has weaknesses and perhaps they should work on them as well. But you shouldn't think of your weaknesses as your defining characteristic either. Consider all the good traits that you have as well. Don't disregard those and get mad at yourself for a trait that you may not like.