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Old 18-07-18, 04:21 AM   #1
 
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Default I saw my sister's profile on one of those matchmaking sites

While doing my science homework last night, I came to this matchmaking site which I find interesting. I was busy browsing through its interface, even typed to search women by ID when I saw a profile very familiar to me. I opened it and found out that it was my sister. I was taken aback and surprised that my sister, who is very conservative and sensitive is part of a dating site! Should I tell my parents about this? Or should I just talk to her and tell her to remove her profile for security purposes. I need opinion from y’all!
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How old is your sister? If I were you, first, I would talk with her about it and then to your parents. Talk it over.
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Why should not your sister be on this page like her brother?
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Should I tell my parents about this? Or should I just talk to her and tell her to remove her profile for security purposes. I need opinion from y’all!

Depends on how old your sister is.

When she's 13, talk to her first.
If she's 18 or older, don't even mention her stuff. That isn't of your concern.

If you both are minors, your parents should delete both accounts for security reasons. Equal rights for all.
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How old is your sister? If I were you, first, I would talk with her about it and then to your parents. Talk it over.
She's just twenty years old. Too young to be listed on a dating site. I think I shouldd. Thanks!
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She's just twenty years old. Too young to be listed on a dating site.

Fine, so you care. But she is grown up.

And if you are an adult too, you should be matured enough to respect that she makes her own decisions without you interfering in her life.

By the way, you can mention that you found her profile on this page. You can even express your concerns. If she doesn't want to talk about it, or, if she doesn't want you to interfere in her life, then you have to accept that.

That's it. But stay put.
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20 years! She's legal and I agree with lliam. But maybe you're worried about she'd meet a bad guy? You can talk with her about how you feel. I think that's all you can do. Unless the site is unsuitable. And/ or this is for his own good.
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What's wrong with her being on a dating site? Being conservative and sensitive doesn't mean she can't be interested in having someone in her life. In any case, it's her own business and it's personal. Why should you go to your parents and reveal something that would potentially embarrass her? That's just being insensitive and hiding it under the guise of being concerned. She's old enough to have her own life and is entitled to privacy. You shouldn't even be reading her profile! If you see something like that you should simply leave it alone and have some respect for her private matters.
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