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Old 23-08-11, 01:14 PM   #1
 
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Lets get this straight i am a not particularly attractive girl and all these boys at school are teasing me by saying ohh sheess so sexy or will you go out with me kinda shit but today it has gone too far because this boy started putting his arm around my shoulder and trying to kiss me on the cheek and then he slapped my arse and tried to grope my tits everyone else in the class laughed but me because i feel really uncorfotable sitting next i have told my parents and teacher but i feel scared
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Old 23-08-11, 01:23 PM   #2
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First of all; sorry to hear that you had to put up with this behavior.

You did the right thing informing your parents and teacher; most people would have been scared to even do just that. Have any of them told you what they're going to do about this? I'd advise you to steer clear of these boys. If they try and touch you again, walk away and immediately go see a teacher - they will deal with it appropriately.









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I'm sorry you had to go through all that. But don't be afraid to say something to a person in authority, especially if they are trying to touch you like they were before. Make sure you follow up with the person you tell and see if they plan to do anything about the situation.In my opinion, If they allow the behavior to continue you should go to a person with more authority and see what they can do to help you.
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Kirk nailed it. And yes, by all means it is sexual harrassment; if not that, it is just regular harrassment, and they are waaaay out of line. I'm quite sorry you have to take this. However, don't let this think all boys are like this; most of us are pretty decent.

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What everyone said is correct.

You shouldn't be scared! You didn't do anything wrong, and you shouldn't have to deal with that. It's very courageous of you to tell someone. I'm glad you did, because you don't have to deal with those immature people!

They'll take the appropriate action and they probably won't be bothering you.

If it gets too much, contact your teachers and administrators. I advise you speaking to a counselor or someone with authority such as your local law enforcement to help you. You should not be sexually harassed.










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You did the right thing going to your teacher and parents, You shouldn't be scared though, those boys are just immature idiots who's actions will someday get them into a lot of trouble. I think your very brave to have had put up with that and told someone about it. Your teachers and parents will do their make sure it doesn't happen again, I'm sure.










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