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Old 20-09-11, 07:04 AM   #1
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Default Guy at school - What should I do?

So last year, year 10, was my first year at my new school and I fit right in with everyone and made friends easily. So the guy I'm talking about, lets call him Bob, was in most of my classes and we became pretty good and close friends. I used to tell Bob stuff that I told only a few other people and he did the same. So around March I started hearing rumours about my two younger sisters, both in year 8 at the time, getting with a bunch of guys. I was pretty angry because I love my sisters to death.
But they turned out to be all lies in the end but then I started hearing stuff about Bob trying to talk them into doing stuff with him, and touching them inappropriately and sometimes just putting himself onto them. So I confronted him about these rumours and he said he'd never do anything like that because they're my sisters, I'm one of his closest friends, and also because he has a younger sister himself. So everything was fine for a while until my best friends started calling Bob about it and recorded their conversations for me (I Didn't know they were doing this at the time). Anyways, in a few of the conversations he admitted to trying to fool around with them and touching them and stuff, even though they resisted.
So fast forward through all the unimportant details.. once school started again after the weekend I floored him and bloodied him pretty badly in front of 3 different year groups. Got suspended, crowd like that is obviously going to attract attention ahaha :p, but I don't regret it.
Anyways so this year I don't talk to him if I don't need to, and I don't even look at him if I can help it. So for the past week he's been trying to make up for what he did. He tries talking to me, offers to let me use his homework if I didn't understand a few questions, and laughs at my jokes almost hysterically o.O. He's apologized over and over again but I don't really listen to him when he does and I honestly don't care.
People in my year tell me that I should just accept his apology and be friends again because he's genuinely sorry (I don't believe he is though). Asked my best friends about this and they told me to do whatever I wanted to, but that's not very helpful obviously... What do you guys think I should do? Is it silly to hold a grudge and should I just get over it?
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I think you should just get over it, what he did wasn't right but it's in the past. It sounds like he's genuinely sorry if he keeps apologizing about it.
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Old 20-09-11, 07:10 AM   #3
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I don't know how other people would respond, and I can't necessarily say what you should do, because I don't know what it is like to have sisters,

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I would accept his apology and become friends again.








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Default Re: Guy at school - What should I do?

I know what you mean , but if you think he has learned his lesson ,then you should give him a chance ,you said he was your closest friend , so consider that ,
i don't know if it would help but try talking to him about the situation , if he was/is your friend he might understand cause isn't that what friends are for ,good luck !
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8 years old GOD .... wtf!

America is a weird country..

Anyway , you should Give him another chance... but dont trust him the way you were... Just give him a Chance to see how it will Float...


and ... Dont let your sisters do anything mad at that age , for gods sake! 8 years old








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Call me evil but I would've probably killed him if he done that to my sister.

But hey. You made him bleed, your friendship will likely never me the same, but don't completely ignore him, get back to speaking terms and tell him if he ever does anything to your sisters which they don't want him to do, you'll beat him up worse.

I'm not telling you to become bestfriends, just treat him as an associate.

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8 years old GOD .... wtf!

America is a weird country..
He said year 8..it means that they're in 8th grade...and it's not America btw!!

Well...if u feel that his apology was sincere and that u know he'd never ever do it again..I guess u should forgive him!! and I guess it's better 4 u not 2 be friends w/ such guys...well..maybe not too close!! but just do what u think is right!!








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Old 20-09-11, 07:44 AM   #8
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Call me evil but I would've probably killed him if he done that to my sister.

But hey. You made him bleed, your friendship will likely never me the same, but don't completely ignore him, get back to speaking terms and tell him if he ever does anything to your sisters which they don't want him to do, you'll beat him up worse.

I'm not telling you to become bestfriends, just treat him as an associate.
I guess I'll give it a go...

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Anyway , you should Give him another chance... but dont trust him the way you were... Just give him a Chance to see how it will Float...


and ... Dont let your sisters do anything mad at that age , for gods sake! 8 years old
Lmao year 8 is around 13 years old. And why're you assuming I'm from or live in America? x)
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I kinda felt sympathy for "Bob". He's apologized and stuff. I think he's learned his lesson and making that much effort well..he must really want to be your friend again.










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Yeah, I think its time to forgive him. His actions weren't right, but you already bloodied him and embarrassed him in front of a lot of people. He's paid his dues, just make up with him and move on.








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