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Old 15-10-11, 05:01 AM   #1
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Unsure Oh crap, crap, crap >_<

On Monday, I will be coming to school early to have my reading session with the year 7 I have been partnered with for literacy leaders. I will be having breakfast with him, talking to him and listening to him read.

But, oh crap.. I'm really stressing and worrying about it. I don't know what to say; what to do; how to act.. I posted a rant topic about how I wanted a girl but still got partnered with a boy, and how he was like "Oh, I've got her" and moved away from me. He just seems like every other ignorant little boy, who will judge me on what I wear and what I look like, and who will probably make comments. We've had training on what to say and how to act, but I just don't know.. This seems way too early - I just not ready for this. What should I do?








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You have to have breakfast with him?

Just get on with it, be yourself how you normally are and try your best. If he makes comments about what you're wearing ect then ignore them, it's all you can do really.
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You have to have breakfast with him?

Just get on with it, be yourself how you normally are and try your best. If he makes comments about what you're wearing ect then ignore them, it's all you can do really.
Yes, we're supposed to be getting breakfast passes so we can get breakfast at the school canteen. We haven't got them yet though.

I just don't know what to say though. I can't show him that I'm nervous and I can't cause big awkward silences because I'm supposed to be the one who's doing the talking and asking questions and stuff. We've been told to ask questions about the book our "buddy" is reading and stuff, but I don't know how to ask them and he'll probably just not answer..








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When i was at school we had to do something like that. I was rubbish at it and failed miserably lol.
Doesn't mean you will though
Try and be more positive, it might not turn out as bad as you think it will.
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When i was at school we had to do something like that. I was rubbish at it and failed miserably lol.
Doesn't mean you will though
Try and be more positive, it might not turn out as bad as you think it will.
Aww. I feel like I will fail at it though.

I don't know how I can feel possitive about it.. I just wish I had been paired with someone different.. :/








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Well you weren't so you've just gotta get on with it, Monday will happen and you'll have to do it.
Honestly though, sometimes you think things will be really bad and you're dreading it but when it happens it's actually not as bad as you thought it'd be.
Maybe on Monday it wont be as bad as you think it'll be.
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Well you weren't so you've just gotta get on with it, Monday will happen and you'll have to do it.
Honestly though, sometimes you think things will be really bad and you're dreading it but when it happens it's actually not as bad as you thought it'd be.
Maybe on Monday it wont be as bad as you think it'll be.
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Stop treating it like it's a big deal and he's some creep? He's just another person, who happens to have a dick... it's not that big of a deal. Just be glad it's not some older cute guy who you'd land up liking..If he thinks your weird? so what? you're not there to become bff so get over it and just do your reading and crap.. it's not gonna be that bad.








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Stop treating it like it's a big deal and he's some creep? He's just another person, who happens to have a dick... it's not that big of a deal. Just be glad it's not some older cute guy who you'd land up liking..If he thinks your weird? so what? you're not there to become bff so get over it and just do your reading and crap.. it's not gonna be that bad.
I suppose.. But we're supposed to find common ground and develop a good relationship with them. It's a bit more than just reading.








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I suppose.. But we're supposed to find common ground and develop a good relationship with them. It's a bit more than just reading.
Well you could always poke fun at the situation. Again just try not to think about it to much. Ask what the teacher said, do what the teacher said and see how he responds.

And YES stop worrying about it! Almost nothing is as bad as you make it!!!
Its always better if you dont think about it and just go with the flow as much as possible.

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