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Old 12-01-12, 11:51 PM   #1
 
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Cheating. Dammit. 3 months ago i left California and moved here to nevada with my parents. I was in a relationship when i left and i still am, was, i don't f*ckn' know.

I don't like to use facebook and all that other social stuff. I'm outgoing, i have a dance crew, and i'm in our basketball varsity team. Last night I had some freetime and I checked my girlfriend's facebook. We talk on the phone atleast once a week. Sometimes she doesn't answer cause she's "studying". I sent her flowers and a cake for our 7 months last week.

She gave me her facebook password and i gave her mine. I snooped around a little bit on her facebook last night since i don't really know what's going on with her. I checked her messages and i see this one guy who's default picture is the two of them sitting on mother freakin bench holding mother freakin hands. I see "hey, babe" "whatchu doin babe?" "i wish you were here" and the most f*ckn, frustrating, annoying, blood boiling of all, "i'd rather be with you than him". WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?

I read it, and everything just spiraled down. I felt like i just got shot. I just wanted everything to stop. After i read her goodmorning text message this morning, i threw my phone. It broke and i just don't give a fuck right now. I just wanna shoot myself. Dammit. DAMN IT. Why the fuck would she cheat on me? WHY. WHY THE FUCK WOULD SHE CHEAT ON ME WITH AN UGLY CHOLO DOUCHE BAG? I wish i never saw it. DAMN IT.
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Old 13-01-12, 12:25 AM   #2
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You're only 13 man, it couldn't have been that serious. It sucks but just chill out. Just tell her you're over and move on.
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Old 13-01-12, 01:11 AM   #3
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1) You are 13. Noone has a real, lasting relationship at 13. You kinda could've seen it coming.

2) Relationships require to be together. If you move away, your girlfriend is gonna lose the physical contact. Facebook and caling aren't good substitutes. So yeah, of course she is gonna look around for a new guy. I'm sorry, but that's life for you.
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Old 13-01-12, 01:22 AM   #4
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Yes, again you're 13! You must see your girlfriend every day. not hear her on the phone every week!

And it's better for you to saw that message! She could mess with you and other guy and you wouldn't even know that. This way you know and it's your turn to dump her!

Good luck!
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Yep your 13, you're just a kid, you'll get over it.
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First of all calm down , and there is no need to swear it ain't gonna fix anything , your young way young , no need to shoot yourself or anything , listen this can happen , it sucks but its not the end of the world , look for a new girl , you need to understand these hurdles come in life you just gotta move past them ( i sound like my father lol )
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Old 13-01-12, 05:38 AM   #7
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Guys, even though he is 13, that doesn't minimize his problem. If you have nothing constructive to say, please don't say it at all. OK mate, I think you need to talk to her about it. I think she's in the wrong, but I kind of think you are too. I mean, you shouldn't be snooping her Facebook... thats wrong. I think you need to cut your losses and tell her to move on. There will be more women. I promise.
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Like everyone else said, you're 13, don't bother with relationships at the moment they will never be real.

And a long distance relationship at 13 is even worse...
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What the fuck does it matter? Blah blah blah long distance, blah blah blah 13.

When your girlfriend cheats on you it's a big deal. Don't belittle this kid just because he is younger. Tell her that you know, don't keep it to yourself, that's about the worst thing you can do.

You need to end your relationship, and get your feelings out. Be angry, but DONT be a douchebag.
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Shut the fuck up fools. I was in a 2 year long relationship when I was 12. That's probably a more real relationship than you all have ever been in, and it's only one.


Listen man, you need to talk to this girl about what you say, definitely. It's just going to be worse if you pretend you never saw it and don't mention it to her.
But break up with her for sure, once a cheater always a cheater, I believe.

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