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Old 15-04-12, 06:48 AM   #1
 
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Default Don't like to open up or talk much

But My girlfriend does..
Recently we've hit this spot. Basically if I didn't talk more and wasn't there for her more, she was going to leave my ass. So I changed and it's been a few days, she says I'm doing well. But If I get busy (even if I tell her I'm busy) she gets upset. I had a seizure yesterday and she was upset I didn't feel like calling her for hours on end and wanted to sleep (They drain your energy, btw).

Is she being too needy or is she right, I'm not there enough?




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Old 15-04-12, 06:50 AM   #2
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Bah this sounds a lot like the predicament me and Ashley are in right now >.> He opens up to me and I just can't. Which makes him feel useless and what not.

I would say she just cares about you. But if you have a genuine reason not to contact her then she should let up a bit. Your health is more important than not speaking for a few hours.
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Well, you both are 50%/50%. I think that was a slut move after you had a seizure to freak out on you because you didn't call. Like, what the fuck? I would have dumped her then and there. You don't need a girl like that.

However, on the flip side, if you want to stay with her, you gotta open up. You gotta be there for her.








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Sounds a little needy to me, but I more so agree with Jared




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It sounds like it's a bit of both right now...

Obviously, she sounds needy for getting upset over you having a seizure. Because seizures are out of your control, and she should be more concerned about your well being than your availability. But, at the same time, it does sound like you must say, "I'm busy" a lot.

I think more communication between you two would be a big help.









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She sounds needy but for the record all girls are lol *gonne hear it ofr that aha* but To be honest you need to be open with her when she needs it, but she needs to back off when you need it and after a seizure I would say would definitely be a time for giving you room imo!!!!!!
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