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Old 18-06-11, 02:23 AM   #1
 
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Hello all ,i have a problem the thing is since like my first day in pre-school to this day i have never had a crush on a boy but i have fallen in love with and crushed on many girls in the past years,The thing is my mom wants me to date a boy and has gotten my friends involved to get me to go out with a boy but she has something huge against Lesbians and gay's (she thinks its a big sin to be one) so i havn't told her or my friends yet i am a lesbian,i don't know what to do i don't want to go out with a boy cause just the thought of it grosses me out and stuff(i'm not saying i hate boys but i hate dating them) and i'm really scared to tell my mom the truth cause of her hate for lesbians please help i'm falling apart i just wish i was normal like other girls and didn't have to suffer but i just can't change myself, once i even tried to go out with a boy and it was so awkward and gross for me i just ran out with a escuse of me being sick i can't handle this pain ,i'm totally confused and scared,as i repeat please help i sometimes just lock myself in my room and cry cause of all this

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Old 18-06-11, 03:09 AM   #2
 
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No.1', Being a lesbian is NOT wrong. I promise! Im straight, but i dont think gays or lesbians are wrong! It's who you are, & its good that you realise & accept it yourself.
No.2', I understand it'll be really hard, but i think you should tell your mum. If you can't face saying it face2face, write her a letter (or email). Say how that's you, & nothing can change it. Say you dont want to make her unhappy, but you cant live a lie.
No.3', I think you should tell your friends too. Or if you'd rather wait for a bit, just tell them at the moment you dont feel like dating, tell them not to hook you up with anyone!
No.4', Be yourself no matter what ANYONE says!
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Old 18-06-11, 04:47 AM   #3
 
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No. There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian at all
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Old 18-06-11, 09:27 AM   #5
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No.1', Being a lesbian is NOT wrong. I promise! Im straight, but i dont think gays or lesbians are wrong! It's who you are, & its good that you realise & accept it yourself.
No.2', I understand it'll be really hard, but i think you should tell your mum. If you can't face saying it face2face, write her a letter (or email). Say how that's you, & nothing can change it. Say you dont want to make her unhappy, but you cant live a lie.
No.3', I think you should tell your friends too. Or if you'd rather wait for a bit, just tell them at the moment you dont feel like dating, tell them not to hook you up with anyone!
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Old 18-06-11, 09:35 AM   #6
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Your mother is just being shallow and ignorant. You're your own woman, and if you're a lesbian there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!

You're doing a fine job, and you need to figure out a way to come out and have everyone or atleast most people (because some people will dislike you solely for your orientation) accept it.
having yourself pent up in your room bawling your eyes out isn't the best way to solve your problems. Be proactive, and be confident, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It gets easier as you get older, trust me.










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Old 18-06-11, 10:29 AM   #7
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As wrong as I don't like to eat fish. which is completely ridiculousssssss. there's nothing wrong being who you are, people who judge and don't accept you are the wrong ones. one day you'll have to tell mommy and daddy about it, but no reason to be worried all the time.








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Old 18-06-11, 07:04 PM   #9
 
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i don't know my mom just hates when i do something she doesn't like in other words when i am something she doesn't like she goes over the top and just makes me feel so bad ,my dad would understand but his job makes him less likely to be here much ,the only person near me who i do trust is my best friend she asked me to go to summer camp with her in the near end of june ,should i maybe it could get my mind of things for awhile.
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As fellow Lesbian let me tell you that is NOT wrong when I first told my parents that I was Lesbian they weren't ok with it but in time they realized that this is how I am and they cant change that. Just tell you parents that this is who you are you are still the same daughter they have always had she just happens to attracted to girls. Your parents should not judge you and let you live your life the way you want it. It can be hard at first to deal with your parents when you first come out to them but hopefully they can realize that you are still you. Keep your head up an dont give up on trying if you ever need to talk please feel free to PM me

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