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so recently i've been kinda thinking about what it might be like to be with another girl. like, im pretty sure im straight and just curious and everything, but i wanna see what it would be like to be with another girl...but i dont really know how that would work...or like...who to do it with?

I've been there, around your age too. My best friend at the time felt the way I did and was wanting to experience, so we did it together. It actually was a lot of fun, but we both decided we didn't like girls. If you feel like that you should for sure try it out. If you have any questions feel free to ask me!

hey thanks! glad to know its kinda normal....and like, i wanna try stuff but i dont have any friends that are like that...my best friend right now has a bf and im like 99% sure she would never even try anything like that anyways. i have another friend that i think would, but she has the hugest mouth on the planet and i dont trust that she would keep it quiet..
also, ive been kinda wondering, not that i wanna really do more than kissing, but what do bi/lesbian girls do together? you know, since they cant really, well..have sex....

well.. some of your friends may be more interested than you think. you're interested and they don't know it, so they could be hiding it too.

as far as wut girls do together, there's kissing, fingering, oral, and toys you can use like a strap on, dildo or something like that. i personally didn't go past oral, but you can do wutever you feel most comfortable doing.

I think it's good to explore your sexuality and be curious. It's normal, so don't feel like you're a weirdo!

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Pretty normal. Most of my girl friends do it; though only a few of them go past making out and feeling up. If you've got anybody close enough to you that you feel comfortable enough with to ask for something like this then go ahead.

(Not sure if that's how it usually works but this is what I know from talking to my girl friends haha)

Yeah you just need to make sure it's somebody you're comfortable with and you can make sure that it won't get out. Good luck, I hope you get the matter resolved.

Most of the girls I know have done something with another girl. By the time they get to my age they're not afraid to admit it. It's all a part of growing up. My gf says let some of your friends know you're curious and see how they react. Like Tiffany said they may be more open to it than you think.