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well, as the title says really!
How do you go about experimenting your sexuality with a friend?
step-by-step guide would be helpful.

Wouldn't a step by step guide, take the experiment out of experimenting?

You're 14.
I'm not sure you really need to be experimenting yet.

Step 1: Find a friend.

Step 2: Ask him/her to experiment.

Step 3: Get rejected and humiliated.

"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra

Just find a friend you trust hugely. Bring up the subject and eventually ask. If they accept, cool. If they decline, still cool. You have time..

As the above people have said, some more amusing than others.

Well for me I was the innaproriote one so everyone "experimented " with me just because so I don't really know what's like for others

I agree with the people above

There aren't really any "steps" you can follow that will ensure this will be successful or even to make sure it happens. You should probably make sure, first of all, that this is really what you want to do. Are you sexually attracted to women at all? Or should I say "girls" your age? In my opinion you're a bit young to engage in anything sexual but I can't stop you.


I just think the really important thing is making sure you're really comfortable with whoever it happens with and don't do anything you might regret. I'd normally say it's a phase but, you never know, just make sure whatever you do isn't from pressure from another person either. If you want to stop at anytime then make sure you do.

You have a friend that you can talk to about anything. Then you get her feelings on bi-curious people. If she's sympathetic you tell her you are. If her reaction is ok, then you ask her if she ever thought about it. If she says yes, then you tell her if she ever wanted to experiment you would with her. Yeah, you might get rejected but you should find someone willing to experiment with you if you keep trying. Best do it with someone you really like and not with someone just because they want to.