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Old 07-02-12, 12:31 PM   #1
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Default Am I bisexual?

Hiya, well..

I keep thinking I am bisexual, I think boys AND girls are attractive..
when I am around girls I get like all flirty etc, but its the same with boys.. and please don't say anything rude about this next bit, I talk to my head of community at school all the time (about bullying) and I think I like her... (fancy..?) and somebody had started a rumor about me saying I fancy her, and its gone round the school, and I keep thinking to myself, do I actually??

but also, I've just found out she's getting married, and I feel quite shocked and upset...

so yeah, do you think I'm Bisexual??

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Old 07-02-12, 12:37 PM   #2
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Default Re: Am I bisexual?

well are you sexually attracted and romantically attracted to them?

You can find someone of the same sex as attractive, like i can tell when a girl is pretty but I don't wanna do her lol.


you pretty much sound bi.
what do you think when you think about yourself being with a girl? (dating)









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Old 07-02-12, 12:42 PM   #3
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The majority of women find other women attractive, for example women's magazines notice how it is always half naked women looking sexy

And some people are just flirty if you are bi or not can only be figured out by you








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Old 07-02-12, 12:44 PM   #4
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I don't know, I've not had that many boyfriends... but sometimes I keep imagining myself with a girl..


And I just think like usual.. they are just people who you can love, it doesn't make me feel sick if I think about me being with a girl..


I had a dream other day...
The other day I went to My head of community to talk about bullying, and she said to me what would my ideal world be, and I said I dont know, and she said she knows what hers would be, and (this is my dream now ) and she said (in the dream) that her ideal world was that there was no miscarriages in pregnancy etc.. and I said to her 'why?... cant you have kids?' and she said 'No; , and I said to her I would carry her baby for her...
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Old 07-02-12, 12:47 PM   #5
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Well just give it time and see what you think

Are you crushed by the thought of possibly not being married to a man and you two having a child together?


just random things like that can tell how you really feel. just give it time.









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Old 07-02-12, 12:47 PM   #6
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The majority of women find other women attractive, for example women's magazines notice how it is always half naked women looking sexy

And some people are just flirty if you are bi or not can only be figured out by you
Hmm.. but sometimes I go to myself under my breath 'omg she's sexy' and they look at me horrified and I just go 'oh my god you are gullible'

I don't know if I am Bisexual though.. I imagine myself dating boys and girls.. (not at the same time obv)
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Old 07-02-12, 12:51 PM   #7
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yeah I really want kids, but I think I've got feelings for girls.. a few years ago (I was younger.. year 7 or 8) we was playing dirty truth or dare, and I had to like do stuff to other girls, i gave a love bite to one girl... and when I was in year 6 I snogged a girl (that wasn't truth or dare)

and other day, i gave a love bite to my friends boyfriend.. (we was only messing, i didn't mean it to be a love bite!) and I feel something for him too?
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Old 07-02-12, 12:54 PM   #8
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Well I think you need to stop deciding which you are because of your past. What you do doesn't matter it's how you feel and what you're attracted to. Also, just because you find someone cute or pretty or a girl sexy doesn't mean your bi. I can admit when a chick is beautiful or sexy but in no way in hell am i bi. It's just really what your sexually and romantically attracted to. also when your a little girl it doesn't matter, that's just playing around.

Honestly, it sounds like your hoping to be bi lol. just give it time, you're young like 14 and at your age everyone is pretty much wanting or saying they're bi and then change their minds later on. Just give it time and you'll figure it out.









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Old 07-02-12, 12:57 PM   #9
 
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If you could imagine yourself having sexual contact with both genders and enjoy it without being disgusted, in my books you're a bi (I've got no clue how authentic my books are )

But I don't think it's that important to find out what you are, it's more important to be comfortable with what you are, whatever that may be.
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Old 07-02-12, 12:59 PM   #10
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