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Old 23-01-18, 09:43 PM   #1
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Today my mom (accidentally) proved her acceptance of the LGBT community while attempting to defuse an ordinary sibling fight about four hours ago. My sister called me "it" as siblings do, then claimed it was because she couldn't tell whether I was a girl or a boy because I'm biologically female and identify as such, but I prefer boys' clothing and I'm attracted to girls. It was half sister fight and half homophobia(But she's nine years old and probably basing this on gender roles), but Mom handled it impeccably. Mom: "We don't call people "it" unless it's in a sci-fi novel and they're a member of an alien species who don't have the same concept of gender, and we are NOT in a sci-fi novel!" Kira: "But I can't tell which gender it is!" Mom: "She says she's a girl, so she's a girl. We respect and validate a person's gender identity even if we don't understand their situation or if they don't play the game of gender roles." Kira: "Finnnnnnnneeeee."
This was EPIC coming out of her! I did not know she was capable of this. My mom is one of the most prim-and-proper, don't-get-in-a-bigot's-way-because-you'll-be-next people I know, so I still can't believe she did that! I just might give her an extra big hug!
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Sounds good

Hopefully she will understand if/when you come out to her too... But I wouldn't rush into it if you're unsure where she stands








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Old 29-01-18, 10:38 PM   #3
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Come out? As if I could do that! I actually posted about why I can't, it's literally one thread above this one.

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that's very nice of her to say ^.^
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Old 06-02-18, 01:10 AM   #5
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Yes, it was unusually nice and progressive of her. That's why I posted it, to show that she's not as bad as I can make her look when I post about her major screwups and borderline abusive behavior. She's a rude homophobe who regularly participates in or orchestrates huge cases of religious intolerance(see "Worst dad ever" in the rant area for example of religious intolerance, and any of my other posts in here for examples of her homophobia), and she doesn't have a problem using excessive physical force to show her bigotry. But she also does stuff like this that makes me wonder where she really stands.
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