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Okay, so one of my best friends' boyfriends (she dumped his sorry ass on the day of the 8th grade dance) for some reason hates me! I can never figure out what the fuck I did to him! Like this morning, for some reason (I guess they were signing yearbooks) he was standing with my best friends. I saw a guy friend of mine so I poke him in the back. The bastard was standing next to my friend, turned around and said: "Don't do that you bitch!" So I hit him in the back. More of a hard slap. Then he pushes me from behind. I turn around and scream: "Fuck off Greg!" And storm off with two of my other friends to the chorus room.

I'm sick and tired of his shit! He can go die in hell for all I care! I don't give a fuck about what happens to him and I mean it! I didn't do a g** damn thing to him and he just automatically hates me! He doesn't hate my other friends, just me! Last week I had a sun burn (which hurt like hell) and he goes to touch it. I swat his hand away and kick him in the leg; it wasn't a hard kick to were he almost falls down. He proceeds to shove so hard that I almost fall down.

And nobody seems to see him do this to me! We're crowded by people, yet no one seems to notice! When him and my friend were dating, she would tell him to tone it down on me, but he would barely stop! He used to always flick food at me when he sat with us at lunch. He can to go hell! Fuck off you asshole!

I just had to let that out. I also feel better after punching a pillow a couple of times. *Takes a deep breath* If you read that, sorry it was so long, I just had to get that off my chest or I was going to hurt someone.

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Just kick him in the balls and get it over with already.

If you ask or tell anyone why he hates you, then you'll just seem paranoid to everyone.

I just say avoid him at all costs... or kick him in the balls.
Personally, I'd do the latter but the former makes more sense.

But hell, some people are just not gonna like you no matter what. You can either take the mature route or you can fight fire with fire.

I don't see why he'd flip out over you poking your friend though... that's just stupid. That only tells me though that he's looking for an excuse to yell at you.

I sure hope I never piss off either of you ladies.....

Anyways, I'm assuming Greg is not like this with everyone, otherwise he'd either be a eunich...or dead. I'd prefer the latter. And I think most guys would, too.

So, if he's not like this with everyone, and he's your b/f's bff, then I'll go out on a limb here and assume that he's jealous of you, specifically all the time and attention you're taking from his bff. He's angry at you b/c in his eyes, you're taking his friend away from him. And, he's not handling it at all maturely.

The fix here is to talk with your b/f about it and see if he cannot intervene by reassuring him that their bond is strong, and that he needs him to lighten up a bot and stop being nasty and abusive to you.

You might try being reasonable with him, remember he's feeling terribly threatened by you now, you're interferring with soemthing that's very important to him. So, that dooesn't mean being a dorr mat, but it does mean not whacking him or stooping to his level and be insulting, etc. I know this is hard. But if you respond to his antagonism by bing provocative yourelf, he will feel even more threatened by you, and this will just escalate further. You need to change the dynamic here, he needs to see you not so much as a challenge, but in a more neutral way, or as something positive for him.

I know what you mean, my friends boyfriend always calls me fat etc. but he says it in a way no one else an see, he says it jokingly and I know he's being serious because of the way he look at me.

No one really gets it except from my friends cousin because he's exactly the same with him. There's no point telling her that because everyone thinks he's such a lovely guy.

I dunno why he hates me... just does <3