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I've had such a nice day untill now.
Talk about being a Hypocrite.
My really close friend, about 2 months ago was really upset because one of her friends stood up for these girls when she had an agurmnet with them and he stood up for them and not her when they were clearly in the wrong, and he'd only knew them for 3 days.
She had this massive convo to me about how upset she felt and i was so understanding and compleatly agreeing with her that you dont just drop your old friends for new ones.
Today, she goes and does it for me!
And I cant even say anything to her about how it made me feel because I know it will make her feel like I'm resorting back to my ways and then it makes me feel so horrible because then I think, Shit, I am being like the old me.
And Now I don't even know if I am or not or if im just compleatly over reacting and I dont even know what to write anymore and...

I don't know what I'm asking people to write.
Just really anoyed me you know.

I completely understand your situation. It's stupid how people can think that they are the victim, then turn around and use their friends as a snotrag to blow their sorrows and angers on... It's just pathetic.

Georgia, it's not what yo say, it's how you say it. ind a way to keep the emotions in check so you can say what's on your mind in a way that your friend can hear and understand.

A lot of times, emotion gets in the way of that, it's a distraction from the real point. Find a way to deal with the emotion so it doesn't interfere with the message.