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Old 14-10-10, 06:31 PM   #1
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Default Double Standards - Why Women get away with more shit than Men

Okay, long ass title, I know. I'm specifically talking about abuse and rape here (mostly abuse) but the over all message is my hatred of Double Standards.


You know what really pissed me off? F on M abuse! I mean really, it get's practically no attention whatsoever! Abuse is bad, so why is F on M seen as funny?!

I mean I once knew a guy who was being abused by this girl I knew and he tried going to the police but it never fucking worked. The one day she starts beating on him out of fucking nowhere and people were actually standing there... laughing!
And it lasted about as long as the passing period and as soon as I was able to get to her I grabbed her by the arm and threw that tiny-ass bitch. Literally, I threw her!

You wanna know what happen next? She got off with a fine, I got ISS, and he was ridiculed for getting beaten up by a girl and the saved by another girl. Luckily, he never did anything drastic. Luckily. Because me and his friends, who only one ever bothered to stand up for him, managed to talk him out of it and told his parents who pulled him out of school and got him the fuck away from that bitch.

I just can't stand it! Abuse is abuse no matter who the victim is. The same applies for rape as well. Why are women always looked at the more moral how knows how to "use violence properly"? Or some other stupidity like that.

Lemme quote TVTropes as those people are the only ones with brains, apparently:
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And in the case where female-on-male violence is supposed to be serious, it is "justified". Because, in many works, women are morally superior, meaning they only use violence reasonably, as opposed to men's inherent evil-inclined nature and love of gratuitous carnage.

This is often subtexted in characterization as most Blood Knights, Heroic Sociopaths and Byronic Heroes are male whereas healers, Shrinking Violets and other subdued and caring types are mostly females. Consequently, it is assumed that any man being slapped/punched/kicked by a woman somehow "deserved" it. He Had It Coming is almost invariably the typical audience reaction. In return, men who hit a woman full-force, especially on the face, almost always elicit a Kick The Dog, Moral Event Horizon crossing moment.
Okay, you know what... fucking fuckers, that's what people who think female on male violence is okay.

Oh, and you wanna know what else? This fucking bitch.
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There was an advice column letter in The Toronto Star a few years ago on this very subject. A male abuse victim wrote in saying that his wife would often punch him during arguments, and that he didn't know what to do. He also mentioned he had several male friends who suffered abuse from their wives or girlfriends as well, including one who was put in the hospital as a result. None of them seem to have even considered going to the police, or leaving. And the letter really, really heavily emphasized that the man would never hit his wife — he repeated this point so many times, the letter almost sounded like he was the one apologizing for something. So, the (female) columnist's advice? "Remember that your wife might be under a lot of pressure at work, avoid assigning blame, and consider couples therapy." Can you imagine a woman in the same situation getting such "advice" from any reputable source? And can you imagine this man, and who knows how many other men in similar situations, actually reading this advice...
Avoid assigning blame? What are you fucking serious?


I mean what the fuck, I'm not a big fan of this woman but she did pretty much break the positive double standard back in the day. Susan B. Anthony.
She committed a crime and they were not going to send her to jail because she was a woman, but she wanted to be sent to jail because she wanted to be fucking treated just as a man would.

What the fuck happened to that?! So many women these days call themselves feminists and demand equality when in fact they just wanna be treated better than men. Or simply put, they want all the positive aspects of being treated like a man but don't want the negative ones - oh, but men deserve it when they do something wrong but never a woman!

Look, if you do something wrong, then it's wrong regardless of gender! That's equality, bitch. You can take you're false ass definition of what equality is and shove it so far up your ass until it comes out your fucking throat and you suffocate slowly so that you may feel the pain of all the men who were wronged by women in this world... which is a lot more than you fucking fuckers like to think!


Okay, long story short, double stands fucking suck. I'm a woman, I have boobs, but if I go out and rape some poor innocent bastard then murder him in cold blood then fucking treat me like you would treat a man who did that to a woman.
Instead of letting the woman off easy because she's a woman. God, these women tend to be major hypocrites in more ways than one too.

Perfect example, on one episode of the Powerpuff Girls, this female criminal only stole Susan B. Anthony coins and convinces the girls not to put her in jail. Later on, it turns out she hasn't been "looking out for other women" because she also hurt other women.
And the the girls school her about Susan B. Anthony.


Long story short, double standards suck, no wonder so many men are gay, women get away with too much, and if you're a straight white male - face it, you're life is going to suck in some way.

Oh, and I actually had more but I had to cut it short. Grr! So my whole story isn't here. Got questions? SO long as you're not an abusive bitch, I'll answer.
And if you are, meh go get sodomized.


And one last thing for good-measure to show you just how many sick fucks exist who are women...
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One of the most sickening things I've ever seen on television: a male victim of horrific domestic violence was describing what had happened to him on a daytime chatshow. His delusionally, irrationally jealous wife, convinced (wrongly) that he was having an affair, waited until he was asleep, melted a dozen wax candles in a saucepan, and poured the boiling wax onto the sleeping man's genitals. He found it difficult to speak when describing the pain and horror of watching the skin of his groin and thighs sloughing off. The audience, consisting entirely of middle aged women, was audibly tittering throughout.
THEY LAUGHED! I'd like to see how much they laugh when I decide to melt down boiling wax and pour it on the outside AND the inside of their cunts!

Sick inhuman fuckers! And to make matters even more sicker, I get off on shit like wax on genitals and not even I think it's funny or arousing in the slightest! Whoever said Gorn was only for men is one serious delusional bastard.
Which is also another double standard. Women are just as much as sick fucks as men, we just tend to be better at hiding it because since we have boobs according to whoever the fuck makes this up - this obviously means we have more privacy than men.

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And no one?

Either it's too long, no one get's it, or some other reason I don't feel like trying to think of.









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Wow, for something that doesn't happen very often, you have a lot to vent out about this particular topic. But I must agree. This topic is usually either overlooked or laughed at, because most people seem to think it's a myth. People can be so narrow-minded.
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Wow, for something that doesn't happen very often, you have a lot to vent out about this particular topic. But I must agree. This topic is usually either overlooked or laughed at, because most people seem to think it's a myth. People can be so narrow-minded.
Just because it's not reported often doesn't mean it doesn't happen often.
I think people are just dumbasses, but what you said works too.









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i used to get *bullied* by my ex at school.

well i call it bullying because if i did to her what she did to me i probably would have been expelled and get in some serious shit for it.

eg. right before an exam she kicked me full force right between my legs for no reason, just because she could and everyone just laughed...not just the students.

it went on for a long time. slapping, kicking, punching... and obviously i had to take it on the chin and just laugh it off because apparantly "guys dont get bullied by girls" which a teacher told me when i spoke to her.

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Wow, that teacher sounds like an idiot.

Glad to know you agree though.









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If some girl tried that shit on me.... I'd knock her out... teach the bitch a lesson, play with the big boys... get treated like one of the big boys




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Well, umm... I agree that double standards are bad but you're making it sound like only we get away with them. Guys get away with a lot of double standards as well so there is plenty of guilt to go around.

I do need to say that you were wrong about the Susan B Anthony thing though. She was served a warrant for her arrest after she voted in the 1872 election. Like many people who were involved in the movement, she was arrested and wasn't given the option of not going to jail. But she did know that she would be arrested and chose to do it anyway.




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I do need to say that you were wrong about the Susan B Anthony thing though. She was served a warrant for her arrest after she voted in the 1872 election. Like many people who were involved in the movement, she was arrested and wasn't given the option of not going to jail. But she did know that she would be arrested and chose to do it anyway.
Perhaps I'm getting my women confused again, I do that sometimes. But I know that happened to some woman, that the judge told her they were not going to send her to jail for being a woman.

When it comes to abuse and rape, women get away with a lot more. Anything not pertaining to that spectrum is irrelevant to this topic. I'm not talking about everyday things, I'm talking about the big things (such as rape and abuse, women almost always get away with it whereas men do not - hell, they don't even have had to of done the crime to get arrested for it).

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When it comes to abuse and rape, women get away with a lot more. Anything not pertaining to that spectrum is irrelevant to this topic. I'm not talking about everyday things, I'm talking about the big things (such as rape and abuse, women almost always get away with it whereas men do not - hell, they don't even have had to of done the crime to get arrested for it).
Not really. As far as rape is concerned, pretty much everyone (men and women) get away with it because most cases are not reported. When you compare the tiny number of incidents where women rape men to the cases where men are the perps, its pretty clear that men get away with raping women on a much larger scale. And something that is reported even less is men raping other men. I think the numbers of reported cases were like 2-3% last time I checked. But again, when you compare the numbers, its pretty small compared to the amount of cases where the woman is the victim.

No one should get away with it but that isn't going to happen until we change both society's views and misconceptions and how our legal system works in this situation.




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