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She's not very social, but she should at least have the decency to just tell me she doesn't want to go. I've said that plenty of times to her but she prefers lying and making me angry. You know what I mean?

Yeah, I do. She might as well just say she can't come instead of giving you false hope and making you change your plans.

It's almost a power thing. She knows that I'm planning my day around our outing, and when she cancels it for unrealistic reasons she knows that I have to change my entire day's plans. It's almost like she enjoys knowing that she has that much power. It's very frustrating and sickening.

Woah, that's horrible and pathetic. Do you have anyone else to go out with who wouldn't mess you around and who would act like a friend?

Yes, my friend Lindsy is amazing and loves to go shopping. We're a perfect pair . I haven't hung out with my friend Tiana since May, and we haven't actually went to do anything in about three to four months. It's really pathetic. I care about her, she was my first friend here, but her actions are very questionable. She'll always be my friend, but if she continues to push me away, well...what am I expected to do? I can't persist forever.

Well maybe you shouldn't arrange to go out with the "friend" who messes you about anymore yeah, I sort of know what you mean.

I haven't tried all summer, because I know she wouldn't go anyways. But it's alright; I have a friend who wants to hang out outside of school, and one is enough for me .

Do you have anyone else you can hang out with, if your friend doesn't want to go?