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Let's do this. I just need to rant right now. I'm gonna make it all sound way more dramatic and serious than it is, but my hormones are raging so I'm going for it.

My stupid boyfriend is normally really really perfect, but then sometimes he just goes off and smokes a lot of weed. He smokes all of this weed, which I would be totally okay with because I don't give a fuck what he does and I'm not one of those controlling girlfriends, but it only bothers me because when he smokes sometimes he just doesn't text me or talk to me for a really long time. Which again, would be fine if it wasn't because he was smoking.

And I don't even get it, because the smoking doesn't like make me mad. I don't want him to stop smoking, because he can do whatever he wants. But whenever he like, tells me about him and his friends smoking I just get upset and like, don't want to hear about it.

Of course, I haven't told him any of this because that would be stupid and bitchy.

my ex was the exact same way. he hid from me that he smoked weed for a long time. when i finally found out i didn't care too much because i didn't think he did it that much. turns out he did do it a lot, and everytime he was high he wouldn't talk to me. which then led to me getting mad when he smoked because i didn't want to be ignored. we went through this for awhile arguing about it. i never asked him to quit because i will never ask anyone to change anything. a person has to change for them. ANYWAYS so he kept telling me he would quit and blah blah blah. in the end he chose it over me so i left him.

try telling him how you feel. start out with the fact that you ARE ok with it and don't mind, you just wish he would talk to you when he was high.

You mean like you don't want him to smoke that weed, and you're pretending that it's ok ?!!

Now, that is bitchy !

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

I'm a little confused here. Why exactly doesn't he speak to you? Does he get angry or upset with you once he's been smoking weed or something? You said at the end it would be "stupid and bitchy" to talk about this to him. On the contrary; if you're in a relationship with him and he's not speaking to you for whatever reason,, then you have a right to find out why. The only stupid thing here is if you weren't to try and discuss this with him. At an ideal time, of course.

I know you ain't exactly looking for advice here, seeing as how it's just a rant, but I think it would best if you spoke to your boyfriend about it. I also think he should stop smoking weed but, hey, that's an entirely different matter and you don't seem to care anyway. xD