AHHHHHHHHHH!
Tell me something, and be honest. Do men just not fucking know their own bodies or something?!
Haven't you ever got you know, morning wood, a random erection with no physical or mental stimulation. Just totally out of the blue? What about when wrestling? Or do you just have no nerves on your dick that you can't feel anything and can only get an erection while your awake and want to get an erection?
If it's the last one... well why the hell would want sex if you can't feel anything?!
*HEADDESKSHEADDESSKHEADDESKS*
Okay, I'm gonna make myself perfectly clear about this. Men can, in fact, be raped.
A physical reaction doesn't mean you want it psychologically.
If hat were the case then a lot of female rape victims haven't actually been raped. Yeah, bet you didn't know that women can get physically aroused and can even orgasm during rape.
So why is it impossible to think that it's not the same for men as well? If people even tried to understand then this wouldn't be an issue. But nooooo it's "all men are horny perverts and they want it all the time every waking moment and even when they're asleep it's all they want - ever. The only time a man does anything is just for sex so it's impossible to rape a man because an erection shows he wants it".
BULL FUCKING SHIT! Men can get erections for no reason as all! Are men really this fucking stupid about their own bodies? Men can get erections from a prostate exam and being anally raped by another man even when the victim is straight!
Yes, a woman can rape a man. No, vaginal penetration isn't necessary. Ever hear of "freezing"? It can happen to anyone. Hell, it's happened to me before. It's when fear takes over and you do what it takes to survive, even if that means complying with the rapist/abuser.
It could be threats, blackmail, being drunk or drugged. Contrary to popular belief, women can be sexually aggressive and not listen to the word "no".
Rape is never the victims fault. A lot of male rape victims are driven to fucking suicide because no one takes it seriously! Men esp. because they think sexually aggressive women are hot and can't imagine a man not wanting that. Well news flash, not everyone has the same fantasies as you.
Because all men are perverts you know. Also bullshit, by the way. Not all men are perverts, I know non-perverted men.
Believe it or not, some don't want sex with you just because you have a cunt. Some men actually wanna wait for a woman the love. Some love the people they are with already and don't want to cheat on them with a whorebag. Not all men want sex from every attractive or mildly attractive or any woman for that matter on the planet. Or off the planet!
Some men just don't fucking want sex. YOU might but that doesn't mean all do.
It's like saying "no women want sex because most don't" except the inverse. Some women do want sex - but, oh, that's accepted. And even if was inverted where most women want sex and some don't. At worst there would be some taunting but it would never justify rape.
Just because it's a normal reaction to have an erection due to physical stimulation doesn't mean they actually want it!
When are people going to fucking realize that guys can have involuntary erections? It happens. I used to know a guy with that problem. I went to school with him. In math class one day he got one. He was sitting behind a girl who was only good looking from behind, can you really blame him? Dismiss him from class, fine but to send him to the office for something he really couldn't control? No, that's stupid!
Also this other guy used to get them all the time when going up the the blackboard.
Erections are not explicitly mental or physical. They can be one, the other, and both. If you're scared, you can still get one if physically stimulated. If you're asleep, you can still get one with or without physical stimulation. And then it can happen if you wanna get turned on and are physically stimulated.
Seriously, am I the only person who cares enough to actually do research on this subject? Learning what causes erections comes with the territory. Plus, i grew up with a bunch of guys. Who i wrestled with on a regular basis. I'm sure you can figure out what happened when they were going through puberty and I was ignorant at that point so I had no idea what I was going to them.
And believe me, they didn't like fighting over the only usable bathroom. They didn't like getting aroused by the fact their attractive cousin who looks far more womanly than she did last year rubbing against them and touching them uncomfortably (I already said i didn't know what I was doing).
And that's not even half of it. They got them while wrestling with each other. You think they wanted that? Because they didn't. Sure, I found it amusing because they'd get embarrassed over it and avoid each other for about an hour but that doesn't mean they wanted it to happen!
Long story short, men can get erections through physical stimulation even when they don't want to, even when they're scared, even when their life is being threatened.
Virtually the same thing can happen to women as well. Ever hear women describe rape? A lot actually feel betrayed by their bodies because their bodies physically enjoyed it.
I would know that feeling, albeit for radically different reasons. You think I psychologically liked it or wanted it? No. My body did, but I didn't. However that was for different reasons. Still, I felt disgusted with myself afterward. It wasn't rape or anything but I've been touched before and no one took it seriously because it was another woman doing the touching.
I froze. I fucking froze. I should have ripped that bitches hair out and turned her face into a bloody pulp.
If it wasn't for my huge black guy friend coming a long (he scares people, I love it) then she probably would have done more. Needless to say, i stuck to him like glue after that. I avoided people more. I felt disgusted getting turned on by a woman but each time I brought it up people just said i was a lesbian or bisexual in denial.
It wasn't until I calmed down, did the research, and actually used my brain did I realize that was bullshit!
Maybe that's why I care so much. Because I've been on the side that gets laughed at for being a victim. Right now, I'm just thankful it didn't go past bad touching. And if I ever saw that bitch again, I'd fucking strangle her for what she did to me. I hate feeling weak and powerless so maybe that's why I can sympathize with anyone who feels weak and powerless, feels like it's their fault it happened. I may not have been raped but it still feels horrible.
And one other thing... what started this was on a Q&A site. This guy accused me that it must be a fantasy of mine and that's why it's an issue with me.
First of all! Femdom will never ever ever be a fantasy of mine!
Second of all! Rape is hardly a fantasy of mine! And fantasy isn't the same as reality. So, yeah, I have rape fantasies. That doesn't mean i want anyone to go out and be raped or I want myself to be raped. The "victim" in a fantasy has all the control, so there's a major difference in this fantasy and the reality.
But seriously, Femdom in any form will never be a fantasy of mine. How horrible that he said that. I don't like dominating bitches, never have.
The third thing is that while I do have rape fantasies. That's all they are. Do you think I'd actually wish that or want it to happen to anyone?! That's a horrible thing to say!! I'm a pervert but I'm not a Sexual Sadist. Sadist, yes, but not sexual. I like seeing people hurt and utterly crushed but not innocent people and not through sexual acts. Just, ew! It involves liking the human body and that is just gross. So why would I want someone to be seriously hurt through a sexual act (even if rape is more about violence and dominance).
I hate people. Why i just don't track these fuckers down and end their lineage is beyond me. I can only hope they wake up and maybe even know a person who it's happened to so they could understand it. Not that I want it to happen to anyone just so they can understand, but just that they could meet a person and listen to the real story and not the ones they make up.
Ugh, humanity.
Also, read this:
Male Rape Victims And the Penetration Problem - The Sexist - Washington City Paper
Male Rape myths and facts, the rape of men
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