Teen Forums - Teen Chat, Teen Help, Teen Advice & Support

As someone mentioned before in this thread, your future is in your hands. It's your choices that will decide what will happen to you in the future, and if you'll be where you want to be. And that's a really important aspect of being a teenager. The good thing is that you have some idea of what you want to achieve in life (I think you mentioned marriage and reproduction.) So now that you do have that in mind you can work towards that in a productive manner if you wish. However, that's totally up to you.

If you think you're problem is totally physical (which, I don't think is the case but I won't convince you of that so I won't try), than think of it as an obstacle that you have to work around. If you want something bad enough, there's usually a way around any obstacles put in your way. While that's not always true, I know it is in this case in particular (Through scientific studies conducted at the University of Texas). So if what you are doing is producing unsatisfactory results in your eyes, why not try something different?

Although, you may be skeptical of the value of a therapist, I would recommend giving it a try. If it doesn't work at all and you don't feel any better about yourself or your situation, then you can rule out a mental "problem" in your approach. It's worth a try. And different approaches almost always = different results. And doing the same approach over and over again is likely to yield the same results. I believe it was Albert Einstein that said "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." So I urge you to consider a different approach if you are wanting a different result.

But then again, this is just a recommendation. You don't have to listen to me. In fact, you can dismiss everything I say. That's your choice. And you can continue on with the way you are going. Like I said, what you do now could end up shaping the rest of your life. Try to make the best out of it. All I'm trying to do with this comment is try to help you out with your situation. And believe it or not, a lot of us do understand how you're feeling. Not all of us think that we are attractive ourselves. We all have our problems and stuff that we have to work around. Don't be so quick to dismiss our thoughts because you think we don't understand because we do. And everyone here is just trying to help you.

Psychological. The fact that you are constantly negative and delusional. Hence the advice of a therapist. If you actually read the valid posts you would realise this by now but you seem to dismiss them without reading any which is frustrating to say the least.

Everyone, had good and bad points about them.

Take your good points and show them too the world.

Someone will love them.

Life is always worth living.