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Like, I really hate the friend zone. I feel like my entire life, existence, being, etc. is surrounded by what I call "Look but don't Touch"syndrome. I have more then a couple friends who are girls, and I'm permanently friendzoned, and its so fucking annoying.

Especially when you know there's no getting out of it. You just sit and listen to their shit, and then watch it blow up in their face, and then you have to listen to them bitch about it, thinking "Well, shit, I wouldn't do that" or, more likely, "Why do I care?" Its friends with emotional benefits, the worst kind of friendship ever.

Especially when its all give, give, give, and then try to take, and nada. Its fucking awful. Like, its the worst feeling in the world, and then you feel like you can do so much better and ughh.

FML.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Amen brother!

Every man's nightmare.

"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love."
- Washington Irving

From one angle I agree, but from another one I don't.

If you don't like the person at all, why continue on? Ignorance is bliss.

Yh, I have the same problem with putting energy into relationships with girls. I'll give them advice and send them pms occasionally to check they're okay but most won't even start an msn conversation with me. It would be so easy just to give up on talking to them but they're the only girls I know and part of me won't let go. So I second that.