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As a bit of back round before you start wondering wth im talking about.Im 16 and I have been overweight since I was 3.I am obese have been trying to get the weight off for about 3 years and this is the year I put my foot down Im trying to go from 250 to 160.The worst my weight ever got was 284 a few years ago and I unintentionaly lost 37lbs.I am currently 242.
Ok heres the problem.My mother could care less.She is completely unsupportive.She refuses to take me to a nutritionist,dosnt want to buy the proper foods and gets pissed off when I wont eat the crap she buys.We eat out practically everyday.I asked her if we could cut out all the fast,fried,and sugary foods and she said "Im not giving up real food because you want me to buy a seperate menu."
I could litiraly cry right now(im not a cryer).I just really don’t know what to do.I havent eaten that much in the past few days simply because all we have is crap.We just came from the store and she let me get a can of cashews.I got those since nuts are the "good" kind of fats.But all she got besides that was ramen,white chocolate,cheesy chips,then she went to Churches and got a 10 pice chicken -.-
I never really realized how bad all the crap I was putting in my body was until I started watching what I ate a few months ago.My mother and I are over weight and my little sister is slightly over weight.It just pisses me off that she dosnt care.I dont expect much from my mother thats just her.I wanted to get the weight off before mid senior year but it seems impossible with all the crap my mother buys.She complains about not having the money to buy healthy food but she turns around and spends 9 dollars on fried chicken?Its not that thers not enough money,its that she dosnt want to give up the money for the crap foods.I guess Im stuck being fat until I get old enough to move out and support my self
Im so tired of it.I want to play sports,wear cute dresses and skirts,not have to shop in the plus size section.Ive had to put up with peoples crap all my life.Im just so over it.
142? are you kidding me? you're fine. go buy a cute dress.
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
Ohhhhh, well in a way that's better, i thought you were all mentally messed up and that hah.
But still 40 pounds is a HUGE leap, I know how you feel though. My family doesn't eat super healthy, but we're not as bad as yours. I eat decent amount of not bad food, soda is my only weakness but it's diet. But I'm still really overweight, I'm under 200 pounds and 5'4, but still... it's bad. I can't lose it for anything, ive tried =/
Do you get allowance where you could use the money to buy your own foods?
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
Ohhhhh, well in a way that's better, i thought you were all mentally messed up and that hah.
But still 40 pounds is a HUGE leap, I know how you feel though. My family doesn't eat super healthy, but we're not as bad as yours. I eat decent amount of not bad food, soda is my only weakness but it's diet. But I'm still really overweight, I'm under 200 pounds and 5'4, but still... it's bad. I can't lose it for anything, ive tried =/
Do you get allowance where you could use the money to buy your own foods?
Oh how nice it would be to go back to beign below the 200 mark >.<
Nope no allowence.My mom will randomly give me money here and ther but I usualy have to give it to my dad for gas money.Ugh this would be so much eaiser if we wernt broke.
Eh, it's still pretty horrible. I don't wear shorts ever. so that's a joy in the summer.. But yeah, sucks either way.
Can you get a job? it would help with exercise and bring in some money for food.
Or join a ymca near you or something?
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
Eh, it's still pretty horrible. I don't wear shorts ever. so that's a joy in the summer.. But yeah, sucks either way.
Can you get a job? it would help with exercise and bring in some money for food.
Or join a ymca near you or something?
Nope again =/
Band drains too much of my day to have a job right now.And during summer I went job hunting.Didnt get any of them.And shes not going to pay for a gym membership.You weigh less then 200 why cant you wear shorts? =0
That really sucks, I don't know any other solutions really, perhaps quit band in the winter and look again? have you tried babysitting?
And I still look horribly large even if I'm under 200.
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
That really sucks, I don't know any other solutions really, perhaps quit band in the winter and look again? have you tried babysitting?
And I still look horribly large even if I'm under 200.
Can babysit,my apartment is completely unsuitable for it.I was thinking about quittign after marching season,but id miss it,even though symphonic season is boaring.
Most of the time babysitting is within the child's own home.
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
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