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Ugh, it's happening again.

There's a guy at school that I keep thinking about, and I know I shouldn't. He's very attractive, and from what I see (friend-wise) he's probably in the popular crowd. So I can almost guarantee 100% that he has a girlfriend. Why do I even bother thinking about him? I know that I'll never have a chance. I mean come on, it's me we're talking about. I don't have a chance in hell. Especially if he already has a girlfriend, which, like I said, he most likely does.

I guess I'll just have to ignore him. We're changing seats in Spanish, and I'm hoping to God my teacher doesn't put him in my group. I don't want to have to talk to him.

Ugh .

Just talk to him, he's just another person, maybe you gain a friendship not a relationship.

He doesn't seem like the kind of guy who'd be friends with some girl like me.

He doesn't 'seem' like the kind of guy.
I'm sure if you tried talking to him you'll soon be friends.

So what if you don't go out with him? He might end up a good friend if you speak to him. Good relationships can come from friendship anyway. I don't think you should be so hard on yourself "a girl like you" might just be his type. You never know and well, it pays to think positively sometimes ^^

You won't lose anythin if u talked to him..and u're not even sure that he has a GF or not...and if u really don't have a chance with him like u've said..at least u can be friends w/ him..he might be a really good one..u don't know!!

If he already has a girlfriend then of course you've got no bloody chance but, c'mon...the worst that's going to happen is that you don't make a new friend. Otherwise, you're opening yourself up for a friendship with him, and possibly even a relationship.

You're not going to ever know until try; hope for the best, prepare for the worst. You may be pleasantly surprised if you take the risk.

"Don't judge a book by its cover."

And by that, don't make assumptions that because he's in the popular crowd that he wouldn't wanna talk to you or be your friend. and are you entirely and completely sure he has a girlfriend? Just take a chance. you might have a chance with him. you never know.

Whats the worst thing that happens? He has a girlfriend and doesn't want to be your friend. Boom. Your done. Yay. Just talk to him, and the best case scenario is that he's single and you fall in love, etc. But, why not just be friends?

"Frendship often ends in love, but love in friendship-never"

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

I ended up not having to be in his group, so crisis averted .

But I really don't think he'd be into me, even as a friend. I don't know how I'd go about talking to him anyways. It'd be weird for me to go up to him and talk to him. He'd probably think I was creepy or was trying to get with him. I don't want to come across that way, and I'm sure if I ever did he'd tell his friends. Gossip is spread easily.