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Old 07-11-11, 12:18 PM   #1
 
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I was reminded last night about our family reunion that is this weekend. I have had it planned for months that me and at least my son was going to be there. It's a big deal to me and my family because thats the one time that side of the family gets together. So I reminded my boyfriend. Of course, he is making up any excuse not to go. He hates being at my familys house. He finds it boring, so he will just sit to the side and do his own this. Aggravating!

So this morning I got a message from his mom saying that his sisters birthday party is that same day. I told her sorry but I had the reunion I was going to. So she didn't reply but my Boyfriend called me and said that she wanted my son to be there. So he said I could go and leave him here. Well, that isn't flying. He don't take care of him. If me and his mom just try to get him to hold our son he will make any excuse or give him to someone else right away. Whenever he starts crying, instead of holding him and making it better, he picks him up and puts him in his room and shuts the door. Sometimes its understandable, but not EVERY time like he does...

My family lives too far and don't get to see my baby as much as his family so I decided he was coming with me. I apologized to his mom and she brought up some crap and it seems like she is trying to make me feel bad. All it did was anger me. Like I understand her family is never together for family events, but it's not my fault that they were planned on the same day and I already had the day planned!! Be a grown up! I've had to sacrifice so many family things already to do family things with his family.

Then my boyfriend is saying he don't want to be in the middle because he don't want to be bitched at by his mom, (She wont bitch me out, she has to bitch him out) or cause our relationship any more problems than we already have.

The thing that is REALLY bothering me is that she is acting like its all okay to me but bitching to EVERYONE ELSE! Making me look bad. No wonder why her son is so controlling and gets whatever he wants. She is the same way!! I don't know how I can be in a family like this. I'm use to being close to my family and being loved by my family, and this family is the opposite. Sometimes me and her get along great, but then there are things that piss me off!

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We have two dogs that poop all over the floor and literally smear it in. And even though I'm told constantly they aren't my dogs and I have no say with them, I'M always the one cleaning it.
I was mad. So I wrote of Face Book I wanted to kill the dogs.-- I wasn't being serious, I even added an 'lol' after it.

One of my good friends wrote on it to take them to a Chinese place, that'll take care of the problem. It was A JOKE!
My boyfriend didn't find it funny and made a HUGE deal out of it and got into a HUGE fight with my friend. Of course I side with my friend. He was JOKING! It's not like he was going to take the couple day drive to come get my dogs and take them to a Chinese Restraunt. Or like he was trying to really persuade me to do it. But their fight got longer and longer and nastier and nastier. Lets just say all of my family that is on Face Book and read that, Hate my boyfriend.

Well, I told him off. He was overreacting and then had the guts to tell me I needed to stand up for him? I told them both to stop, but I wasn't siding with him. And then he say 'Well, mom is pissed off about it too!' I told him good, let her be mad... I don't care. Seconds later she is next to me and is acting like everything is okay to my face. LIKE always... Yet i'm sure she was bitching about it. Sometimes I hate them. Sometimes I hate my boyfriend. Sometimes I want to go home where I know my family actually loves me and respects me and my friendships and my decisions...

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Old 07-11-11, 12:26 PM   #2
 
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Your boyfriend (and the whole family by the sound of it) need a good kick in the arse if you ask me.
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We have two dogs that poop all over the floor and literally smear it in. And even though I'm told constantly they aren't my dogs and I have no say with them, I'M always the one cleaning it.
I was mad. So I wrote of Face Book I wanted to kill the dogs.-- I wasn't being serious, I even added an 'lol' after it.





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Old 07-11-11, 04:16 PM   #4
 
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One is potty trained mostly. The other one will tell you when she has to go if she it out of her box. But since she sleeps in her box she will go int there in the middle of the night and smear it all over. Its gross. I'd almost rather leave her out of the box and let her poo all over the house and clean it up in a pile.

I've tried to train her, but she seems to just have a mind of her own. Plus her daddy spoils her rotten lol.




And yes, I'd love to kick some of them in the arse. xD
His mom came over a little bit ago and acted all happy dory. I hate fake people. Especially fake 40 year olds. BLAH.




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Your boyfriend is an asshole. Is he the father of your baby?










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Yesss, he is the father.




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