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Ok, earlier last week my friends and I were goofing around in my 2nd period class. Have any of ya'll ever had a group of friends that just make you laugh and joke around? This was my group of friends. They're really fun to be around but sometimes they can take it to far. Ok, one of those friends, Abigail, was goofing around with me and we ended up going into this hestericall laughing fit. My other friend, Katherine, looked at Abigail and I and said," You guys are maniacs", or something to that affect. She didn't say it meanly, just joking.
Abigail was playin around still when i opened my purse, and my sucker fell out. (I know, I am a candy addict) She saw it fall on the floor and started begging for it. Of, course, I said no because I didn't have money to give away (I bought it at the school store) Later when class was being dismissed my friend Anne told me that John (guy friend who also sat at my table) had stolen that sucker and given it to Abigail. I have to admitt, a sucker is pretty insignificant, but just knowing that John would steal something from me made me mad and aware that he wasn't trustworthy. I found Abigail in the hall waiting for her next class and i saw that she was eating it (of course).
I asked her why she would steal it from me and she said" I swear i didn't know it was yours. John gave it to me". That just really PO'd me and that they would go around stealing stuff from my purse. Again, I know it doesn't matter that it was a stupid sucker, i cared because they would think of stealing something from me in the 1st place. It makes me rethink how trust worthy some of my friends really are. Have any of you had someone you thought you trusted steal from you?

My friend stole my ipod. I stole it back, we're still friends. A sucker is fucking AMAZINGLY insignificant. Idk, i wouldn't let it effect a friendship. If she steals your credit card info and goes on a shopping spree, that's something. A sucker, idk. That's kinda something pretty stupid to worry about.

This is ridonkulous

I would say "Get over it, it's only a stupid sucker." But I understand why you'd be upset.
Honestly, I think it was just them joking around but just explain to them that you were angry about it.
If they're friends worth keeping they'd apologize and wouldn't do it again.

This guy did that to me back in 9th grade with a sharpie and a bag of some "green".

PS I don't do the "green" thing anymore.

Not a big deal. Just play a prank on her to get even >

Haha, well, it's been a while and I know that a stupid sucker meas absolutey nothing, but I have discovered that the sucker thing was just the start. My friend Abigail didn't hurt anything taking a stupid sucker because a sucker means nothing, escpecially. But now that i've gotten to know her more, I've seen some of the crowds she hangs in, and they aren't fantastic preps. I was sitting at breakfast the other day when I saw her and her group sitting down. i could hear them cussing and talking trash about other students. To me that's a bad sign, though I haven't told her.

And some other things have been going on with her lately. i recently got a new IPOD Touch for Christmas last year, and she's been asking to use it. I doesn't bother me for my friends to play with it as long as they take care of it, but what has been bothering me is that she asks me for it constantly. Every day when we get into class, she asks for it. Whe we are supposed to be working, she asks to play with it. When we are doing a graded assignment, she asks for it. Recently I have been getting the feeling I'm being used.

I know it's more than that because of the way she acts around me when she can't use it. When i see her at breakfast, she diesregards me. When i need a favor, she can't do it. And it's not just me she's acting like this to, its other friends, other classmates. She'll start gossipig about what a ***** some girl is. I becoming more tha skeptical about her, What do you think I should do?

To get ontopic again:

Nope, no friend of mine ever stole anything off me. But i did steal from my friend myself.

There was this friend that made me laugh. He was a wacko like myself, and we fit each other like a twin.
Then i stole his gold ring, gold watch and gold necklace.

I didn't really care about friends back then. They were just pawns to me which were only useful to talk with and to buy me food.

I'm the 1%. Get out the pitchforks and fire guys, we have a pancake to hunt.

Well I hope you care about them now, Michael. Someone who fits to you that closely should be respected, and both of you should be able to trust one another. Friends are important, they are who we count on when we need a shoulder to cry on. And if they are of the opposite sex, then they are who becomes more of a friend that will grow to care and love u.