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Well I have a boyfriend who I've dated for over a year and I love a lot. Lately I've been trying to deal with depression, which in fact was caused by him fucking sexting my friend, so obviously I haven't been the cheeriest person around him. He decided to tell me that he's gonna invite a bunch of our friends to go sledding and that I shouldn't go because I'll just ruin it for him. What the fuck. It sounds like a lot of fun and I know that if I went it would put me in a great mood, which would be really good for me. But he seems to think that I'll just like sit there complaining the whole time or something... How do I get through to him that leaving me out of fun stuff like that and assuming I'm always gonna be sad is just gonna make me more depressed??

uhhm, if you catch him sexting your friend and now he's making plans with people and telling you not to come probably means he isn't the best guy to be with. that's a really bad sign. do you know which friends are going with him? it sounds like he's going and inviting the other girl... sounds like bad news.

I didn't wanna mention the friend thing, we're past that. Both of us our completely cut off from her. I just mentioned that because it's the main reason that I've been having problems. And I've heard from enough people that he's not right for me, but no one other than me and him know the full story about our relationship, which would take a reeeally long post to explain....

What I'm really worried about right now is just how I can't seem to make him understand that he can't just assume I'm gonna be sad all the time...

Douche move, so what if you're feeling bad, you're his girlfriend. If he's inviting both of your friends you should both be allowed to go. Also, not wanting to be with your girlfriend isn't exactly a good sign of a healthy relationship. I'd ditch him personally.

I feel like I need him I guess. He can be a jerk sometimes but usually he makes me really happy. It's all really confusing to me :/

A jerk is a jerk, it's your call for being with him or not. If he is a jerk at his worst, then he isn't right for you. Not even at his best, because who is the best all the time? NOBODY

I would talk to him about it, because telling us isn't going to do anything for your relationship.

I know, I talked to him for awhile and it all turned out alright I guess.

I just needed a place to let it all out, I don't like to pile my problems onto my best friend Austin. So I figured I could rant here.

This is stupid I would have dumped him already. He doesn't want you to go?!?!?! thats the stupidest boyfriend ever. If he knew better he would know that cheering you up by going sledding is good intend of getting more depress by living you there knowing that they are having fun without you. I have to say it. Sorry if that was to much.

Wow this is incredibly similar to a situation I was in!

Hm, well he's being out of order but if you love him (I think I saw a previous post on my thread about you loving your boyfriend?) then as much as people say he's bad news you wouldn't want to leave him, am I right? You need to talk to him about it, what was the original reasons for being depressed? (you can pm me if you like or you don't have to say) Really, he should understand, but maybe it's making him upset and he's trying to hide it, when you're with him, does it make you feel happier?

Grey's Anatomy fan! woo.

1) The guy is a jerk
2) He sexted your friend
3) He does things with friends and tells you he doesn't want you around.

Yeah, i'd say this guy doesn't love you as much as you love him. And of course it looks "okay" if you talk to him, but it really isn't.
He only makes it look okay to be rid of the rant.

If i were you, i'd kick his ass out of your life before he makes things worse. he doesn't seem to respect you at all.